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A stripper at a bachelor party - legit or sailing? They decided a couple fight - voila! Sheee

2022-08-10T09:50:26.501Z


In the Tel Aviv Confessions group, a woman wrote from a fictitious profile that she found out that a bachelor party with a stripper was planned for her partner, and her future husband - what would you do?


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A stripper at a bachelor party - legit or sailing?

They decided a couple fight

In the favorite confession group of the section "Confessions TLV" a woman wrote from a fictitious profile that she found out that a bachelor party with a stripper was planned for her partner - her future husband - she does not agree but he claims she should trust him.

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10/08/2022

10/08/2022

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Asking from a fictitious profile,



my friend and I are getting married.

We have been together for 3 years, and he is truly the love of my life.



His friends have already thrown a bachelor party for him.

Innocently I asked, "You won't be a stripper, will you?"



He answered me "probably you will, the majority in my group are single and they are eager for it".

I looked at him shocked, and he said to me "What? What to do, lie to you like most men?"



I told him I wasn't ready for that in any way.



He told me he has no power, he doesn't talk about it at all.

that he doesn't care at all that even at my bachelorette party there will be a stripper "and even 10" for him, because he trusts me with his eyes closed, and that I should also trust him, and that the world won't die "if your friend sees a little of someone else's breasts. It's just the norm, all friends want In


short, I don't know what to do.

Won't anything happen if your friend sees some of someone else's breasts? (Photo: ShutterStock, Vic Helian)

Women's responses

Soul, do what he says, invite 10, send him pictures, we'll see if after that "he won't have the strength to talk about it"... he's cheeky,



he knows it hurts you and shrugs off "I don't have the strength" what will happen next?

A very important point to think about before the wedding.. Maila would have asked if it was okay for you and would have considered your feelings but his excuse is really irrelevant regardless of his friends..



There is a serious problem here beyond the moral aspect.

Your future husband prefers to please his friends instead of finding a solution to the problem you present to him.

It's not pleasant for you to be a stripper and he put a line on it and it's a serious problem for the rest of the way.

Now it's a stripper and later these will be more serious things.



Enough with men who think it's okay to trade a woman's body as if it's an object of entertainment + we have to see other women's tits even though they're married and about to get married because they haven't passed puberty



You all act like children.

The friends - who will hear that these are 13-year-olds who have never seen a real tit.

They really lack a tit that they have to pay money for.

awkward.

The groom - what interests him is what his friends want, even if it is their pure idiocy.

And you - that you don't trust him because someone will reveal a tit to him.

Come on, if he wants to cheat there are free options.

And the most ridiculous thing is that you are having a discussion at all about a stripper, not a stripper.

What is this?!

the 90s?!

Haven't people moved on from this nonsense already?

Let them go to Sinai for a week like normal people.



Soul, if he wants to touch tits that aren't yours, he doesn't need a stripper at a bachelor party, he can just go to your neighbor.

Come on, if you don't trust him, why are you getting married?

Then you are surprised that so many people get divorced.

I have no strength anymore.



I don't know what to tell you...because this whole discussion seems unnecessary to me.

If your problem is the stripper's rights, you probably don't share the same values ​​and that should definitely be talked about.

If your problem is that there will be boobs at a bachelor party... well, grow up, urgently.



I think people went straight to the issue of security and breach of trust and morality, etc.

I personally don't understand the concept of strippers, it's a bit primitive and in my world, I would be more disappointed that my partner is a young man who is excited about nudity that he can see at any given time on the computer and sells my feelings and my desires for it.

In addition, I would be disappointed that he does not have independent judgment and thought, why does everyone have to have a bachelor/bachelorette party?

What is there to celebrate, after all, it's not that you're really lying there with people and breaking up with the singles, in the end it's about commercialization, shopping, the culture of social networks, doing for the sake of doing.

We are deeply influenced by some hollow American mold without challenging it or thinking that it can be celebrated in a million other ways.

Thank God that I won a partner like me with a brain and a backbone.

Men's responses

stripper.

Do I have to pay money for someone to undress in front of me?

Tin for sure.

Everyone has nipples, I see no reason for yours to cost me money.

And I never understood this stupid custom of paying a woman to strip and dance in front of you.

And men also fly over it as if they have never seen vulva before.

Only 16-year-olds are enthusiastic about such a pastime.



Release atonement everything is good, a little titty and ass not what will make him run away.

If he wanted, he would have remained single and would have walked away without a stripper.. Whether it's for him or for his friends or it's his last day to celebrate properly because voila later he won't have all this... come on, let him enjoy himself.

And in addition to all that, he also told you everything inside that it needs to be appreciated in itself..



Let me tell you something that no one here will tell you, it was his mistake, he had to lie.



I don't know why your insecurity has to ruin your wedding fucking celebration for him and his friends instead of concentrating on this happy occasion you're busy sailing



A paid stripper is repulsive huh?

Even paid lawyers are simply disgusting!

And also paid repairmen... it's one of the horrors



, you don't have too much, it's his decision.

You expressed your displeasure, but at the end of the day it's his life.

You can disagree with the result, and hence you have two options - accept it, or get up and leave.

There is no middle ground.

The third option, of course, is to make his life miserable.

But then nothing good will come out of it, you will both come up short, and it will only hurt your relationship.



First of all, to all the girls who responded that a stripper is fine and there's no problem with it, you're cool, light and flowing


. Second, why does everyone here say that if you don't trust him then... what else needs to happen beyond that?


Acting like a poor man and inviting a girl with a hard life to dance naked on him for a fee is not enough to understand that you have no one to trust?

The answer he gave is not enough?



Well, someone make an excel sheet and summarize all the answers here?

You didn't help the girl on the boat, you just judged and spilled venom.

My two cents: Here's a glimpse into the future of how joint decisions are made in your relationship.

I would open this conversation with your future fiance and write him a note of warning.

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what would you do

liberating, there's no point in dwelling on it.

Casts a veto and waits for the continuation of the relationship in this

Trying to explain that it's very bad in my opinion, but I take into account that it's too late to change

What do you mean there is no power not talking about it?

Who answers like that?

Cancels everything

I don't see anything wrong with a little boy pan as long as he doesn't touch her

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