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Hundreds of women answered "yes" to this chilling question - what about you?

From a spontaneous survey conducted in the Tel Aviv Confession group, the question was asked: "Have you been harassed in your life?".

Within an hour, the sad and expected results were received: most of the women were harassed at least once, and the reactions are chilling

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11/08/2022

11/08/2022

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An anonymous post that appeared this week in which a woman, who had never been sexually harassed, said:

"I really don't like the motto that emerged in the me too era, of "one out of one", I am a woman, I have never been sexually harassed in any way, and with all my pain for the women around me, yes, Al Put us all in the victim's slot with you, there is no reason, not all of us have been harassed, not all of us walk around the world in fear. Yes, sexual harassment is common, no, not all of them have been harassed."

The post had many responses, as a result of which the directors of the TLV Confessions group decided to conduct a survey, asking women if they had been sexually harassed in their lives.

The answers are chilling:

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Women's responses

• Well done to the men who voted that they were not sexually harassed.

  You are wonderful.

• A post addressed to women only.

  Then in the option "I have not been sexually harassed", men answer.

  A.

  classical, b.

  Thanks for proving it

• I just want to mention, sexual harassment doesn't have to be physical.

  It can also be verbal about one or another sexual connotation.

  From whistling in the street, to an inappropriate statement, to "just" throwing you how many would be happy to sleep with you.

  And I wish none of us would be bothered.

• I was a girl and a young woman in the 80s-90s.

  They whistled at me, threw words at me, gave me tokens, all kinds of things that from one point of view might be considered sexual harassment, from my point of view it really wasn't like that, I didn't feel harassed .. I think the line became blurred, everything became sexual harassment and it was completely blown out of proportion

• This is really true.

  My neighbor compensated a girl who sued him for sexual harassment when he beeped at her from the car and told her she was stunning.

• "Sexual harassment" that is physical, i.e. involving contact, is by definition *assault*. Harassment is verbal

• One ??

  too much.

  The first at the age of 16, I worked at Burger Ranch at the Hagana branch in Petah Tikva, there was a manager named Moshe. I will never forget his mustache and repulsive smile. The aisles at the cash register were really narrow. Nothing, I flew away. I was ashamed to tell my mother why. I admit it made me anxious over the years, happened more than once. I learned not to be silent and not to freeze, but it still hurts

Hundreds of votes in an hour and a half (photo: screenshot, Facebook)

Men's responses

• I want to add a point of view to the discussion.

  There are so many harassers, in the not so distant past they were literally on the free street, today it has moved more to the virtual space (but also on the street) and in my opinion there is also almost no man who has not been sexually harassed by both men and women.

  The problem is that for the most part (for the most part - don't attack) a man experiences sexual harassment in a much less serious way than a woman, especially if the harassment was not violent.

  That's why there are many men who simply don't perceive the emotional gap that exists between a disturbed woman and a disturbed man and therefore allow themselves to be disturbed, and if the girl is not suitable to be disturbed "with the appropriate humor" they even believe that the problem lies with her.

  And this is, in my opinion, a gap that exists between men and women on the subject, and it needs to be bridged.

• To remind you, whoever asked what time it was on the street, it doesn't count.

  Even if you yelled at him annoyingly all over the street. (a true story that happened to a friend in Tel Aviv) The man ran out of battery on his cell phone and asked someone at a bus stop what time it was. He almost got arrested.

• Women are like this: let's write a post about the fact that psycho men start with women on the street and even online.

• Women too: we will call every whistle and every word of a man as sexual harassment and reduce the men's desire for any interaction with the female sex.

  I don't understand what the purpose of the post is?

  Harassing men will continue to harass and good men will simply be afraid to make any move because of such posts

• Girls who think they've been harassed, most likely haven't been harassed and are just telling themselves that they have.

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I was sexually harassed

I was not sexually harassed

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