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Is this how a woman who doesn't want a man behaves?

Talia's lie

Talia has been losing it for several episodes in a row, and when it comes to the seagull, it seems like she's lost her mind.

She reacts to the "small disappointments" she talks about as if they were much bigger disappointments, and we have a guess where that comes from

Adi Dantes

08/09/2022

08/09/2022

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I don't want to say I told you, but come on...

who said Talia wouldn't allow this relationship to move forward a millimeter as soon as all the obstacles on which she hung hopefully along the way are removed?

While everyone praised Talia-Lev-Zahav I said that this relationship has no chance outside because of her insecurity and the fact that she is unable to believe that she really deserves love.

I know - sad and mean of me, but you know what else?

Right.

This is what.

Without insulting Talia, it is completely clear that she has long since lost it when it comes to the seagull - not because she is in love with him and afraid of him or because he is not sensitive enough to her "at certain points", but because her insecurity will eventually crush the chances of this partnership for good , if he hasn't done it by now.

She is angry that someone outside is yelling at her - a situation over which the seagull has no control, reminds me of the men who are angry at their wives for looking "too good" because it will make other people start on them.

And that is already poison - can you imagine the opposite situation - one where there is a relationship in the house where the man goes on a rampage and takes out all his anger on the woman just because she was yelled at from the outside?

Including quotes like "I'm really pissed off right now" with a demand that she leave him alone because he claims she must have done something to encourage it?

You know what we would call a man who lashes out at someone for something she didn't do or encourage in any way?

violent.

But when it comes to a woman we can't say it's violence, because hey, she's just offended, isn't she?

No.

She is not "overall" offended - she is burning designers because Shef must have "done something, to encourage the fact that she is not liked. Shef is to blame. Not her, not her behavior and not the way she is perceived - no. Shef is to blame.

doing tests

Talia in the fireplace room (photo: screenshot, Big Brother Network 13)

Talia wants to prove that Seagull doesn't want her enough, so she looks for where he falls.

It started with small tests - frustrating questions like "will you make a financial agreement with me" or "are you ready to come to Rishon Lezion for a date with me", continued with more serious tests like how he looks at her or breathes next to her and finally erupted when she decided that he was not sensitive enough to her and pressure hers while he also finds himself in the most stressful situation in the past 90 days for the members of the house. True - there is a situation where he really wasn't sensitive enough, maybe. But you know why he wasn't sensitive enough exactly at that specific second that Talia needed This?

Because a seagull is a human being.

And humans, by virtue of being human, do not do everything 100% perfectly and tend to make mistakes much more than we are willing to admit.

Shaf didn't pass all her tests with a bright 100 simply because he doesn't read minds, doesn't live inside her head and also, this thing that Talia tries to ignore - he is a person in his own right, with desires and desires and feelings and everything, so just like any person, Sometimes he doesn't answer exactly the answer Talia wants to hear, doesn't say exactly the right word and doesn't get 100 on the test.

And for Talia, unfortunately for Shaf, this is a disaster - she simply cannot contain the fact that he is not ready to destroy and burn his whole life and completely cancel himself for her.

So she gets angry, upset and finally ends this relationship with a variety of swans about how wrong he is while his every move gets comments - like the married couples where one of the spouses always catches looks and clicks from the other side until it is no longer pleasant to be around them.

Chronically disappointed.

Talia is crying in bed (photo: screenshot, 13 network Big Brother)

Talia is one of those women who demands 500% from their partners, and then doesn't want them because they "give too much".

She wants to be adored and chased no matter how much she repels him, because that's the only way she thinks she'll be able to believe that he really wants her, and maybe in the end she'll feel loved.

This will not happen of course, because in order to feel loved you first need to feel love - that is, to believe that you are indeed worthy of love, and that is something that will never come from the outside.

Feeling worthy of love is something from within, which can be resolved through a personal, internal and simple process.

Beyond that, if a seagull did throw away the gram and a half of masculinity left in him and roll around her non-stop (like he's doing now, yes? But a little more) she would start complaining that he was suffocating her and tiring her, and that she couldn't breathe anymore.

The fact that now Talia has moved on to being angry with him for "at some points you are sensitive to me and at some points not enough" and then screaming at him in nightclub decibels "I'm not mad at you" turns this partnership into a circus for everyone watching it - including the other housemates.

I understand the situation of both of them, they are really stuck together too much, and maybe outside, if they had air from each other there would still be a chance to drag this thing out for a few months, but the truth is that these two seem to have reached the point of no return.

He will never be able to win with her simply because she herself does not understand what she can or should contain, so nothing will ever be enough - not 500% sensitivity and not ordinary humanity.

Someone like her, who comes from a place of such deep insecurity, will never really believe that she is worthy of love, so she will continue to look for flaws that will confirm to her that indeed - here, the person in front of her doesn't really want her/love her/is sensitive to her.

She will always look for what's wrong - and you know what happens to people who look for what's wrong in every situation or person they meet?

In the end they always find him.

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