"This film disappointed me in a good way, I was expecting a turnip!"
It sometimes happens that we are
“pleasantly surprised”
by something that we imagined to be unsatisfactory, even bad.
This is what the expression
“to be disappointed in good”
means , according to the Panfrancophone lexicographic database (BDLP).
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Moderate your enthusiasm
“Disappointed in good”
makes it possible to express one's satisfaction with moderation and prudence.
In
"Do you speak (the) French?"
by Mathieu Avanzi, the expression is described thus
“like an oxymoron, in French-speaking Switzerland, in particular in the canton of Vaud”
.
To say
"disappointed in good"
is to keep the pejorative connotation of disappointment to curb excessive enthusiasm.
But this attenuation is perhaps due to the spite of seeing his pessimistic forecast defeated!
We sometimes laugh at being stung by the fact that things are going better than announced.
For Georges Arès, author of
“Parler suisse, parle français”
, this expression is
“an admirable French-speaking phrase where the unconscious speaks openly”
, because
“we hoped for a bad result, but it is good, against all odds”
.
The expression is therefore not without humour, just like
“ça va le chalet”
, literally
“it's not going to get your head”
.
It joins other expressions that are both funny and euphemistic, among which we find
"It's lukewarm"
, which designates extreme heat, or
"save the truth"
, which means to lie.