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Students voted for their parents to attack and say "Are you so stupid?" The most sad sentence is the most ranked

2022-12-03T12:08:32.145Z


The new crown epidemic continues to affect life in Hong Kong, and has a great impact on the emotions of students and parents. An agency interviewed 2,020 people about the emotional problems of primary and secondary school students and their parents from early October to mid-November this year.


The new crown epidemic continues to affect life in Hong Kong, and has a great impact on the emotions of students and parents. An agency interviewed 2,020 people about the emotions of primary and secondary school students and their parents from early October to mid-November this year. 20% of middle school students and 15% of primary school students chose "How scary do you look!", followed by "How stupid are you?" Don't mind comparing yourself with others.


In the survey, there was also the "Five Big Children's Words That Hurt Parents the Most". Half of the interviewed parents said that their children "know it, you don't have to talk about it" hurt their parents the most. What do you know?" I was discouraged by this sentence.


The most interviewed students said, "You look so scary!" It hurt the hearts of children

From the beginning of October to mid-November this year, Zizaishe interviewed 2,020 people about the emotional problems of primary and secondary school students and their parents, including 356 primary four to primary six students, 1,180 middle school students and 484 parents.

What do parents say that hurts their children the most?

As many as 20% of middle school students and 15% of primary school students chose "How scary are you!", 2 more than the second-ranked "Are you so stupid?" and "You don't study, you will be a beggar in the future". 1 and 7 percentage points, respectively 13% of the interviewed primary and middle school students choose.

The third place is "You are so useless!", which was chosen by 11% of middle school students and 13% of elementary school students, slightly higher than the rate of choosing "I regret giving birth to you!".

19% of middle school students and 16% of primary school students do not feel that their parents have ever hurt themselves by talking.

A quarter of middle school students surveyed wish their parents to "trust me and be less verbose"

Zhou Huashan, the founder of Zizaishe, said that the results showed that young people of the new generation do not mind being compared with others, but a total of 35% of the students did not think their parents had hurt them, which shows that the parent-child relationship has indeed improved in Hong Kong.

Primary school students are the most eager for their parents to "encourage me, not scold me", accounting for 24%, followed by "appreciate my dedication and hard work". Middle school students are slightly different, 23% hope their parents "trust me and be less verbose".

Parents are most hurt by a child saying "I know, I know, you are so annoying and long-winded!"

Parents are most hurt by their children’s speech, as high as Zhila, you are so annoying and long-winded. 50% of parents choose "I know!" Twice, the hateful words "Why did you bring me into this world?" accounted for only 6%.

Nearly 40% of Parents Surveyed Want Their Children to Reduce Internet and Playtime

In terms of action, a total of 38% of the parents hope that their children can reduce the time spent surfing the Internet and playing games, 24% and 15% want to actively communicate with their parents and not lie to their parents.

Zhou Huashan pointed out that the results show that parents in Hong Kong pay more attention to appearance and behavior than communication, and emotional and character education still need to be improved.

Nearly 20% of the interviewed students said that they have no one to talk to when they encounter troubles

According to the survey, less than 10% of the respondents would seek professional advice when encountering emotional distress, and 17% of elementary school students and 19% of middle school students believed that they had no one to confide in.

Chen Liyun, the founding director of the Behavioral Health Research Center of the University of Hong Kong, said that the epidemic has put a lot of pressure on parents and children, and parents tend to project their irritability on their children. She suggested strengthening the emotional support of parents and increasing parent-child sports activities and nature activities. Let both parties express their emotions effectively.

She even suggested allowing children who have not had injections to participate in extracurricular activities to improve their physical and mental health.

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Source: hk1

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