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2022-12-22T15:23:58.779Z


Looking for a relationship? Learn your romantic body language. Dr. Shani Kriv with tips and methods for creating rapport and improving self-confidence in dating


Along with the words we say and say, the body has its own non-verbal language, which communicates below the surface and conveys messages directly to the brain through physical gestures and body movements.

Interestingly, there are significant differences in the body language of men versus women.

Social psychology teaches us that this is a product of a socialization process - from a young age we adapt our body language to the gender norms that are adapted to us and expected of us.

For example, the stereotypes attributed to women that are expressed in body language are politeness, sociability, cooperation, compared to those of men - assertiveness, power, strength, taking focus, and taking a stand.



The influence of the body on external transmission is so great that one must know at least the basics.

Here are some important tips that will help you use body language with awareness and create the exact connections in every meeting:

Power posing.

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An upright body versus a bent body

One of the most important things to remember when we enter a meeting with a new person is to hold our body with presence.

Even if it feels uncomfortable, pull your shoulders back and relax them - this will immediately signal inward the feeling of self-worth, and outwardly you will radiate presence.

When we feel weak, our body language gathers and contracts, the hands cover the chest, the shoulders are bent, the chin and head are tilted down or to the side, sometimes the weight of the body also leans to one side.

On the other hand, our body language expands, hands open, chin slightly up, lips smile, weight balanced in the center between two legs when we feel dominant and victorious.

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power posing

Researcher Amy Cuddy coined the term power posing and she regularly recommends that we practice daily for 2 minutes with hands on hips (or in the victory V position) big smile, chin up.

This movement connects us to a sense of self-worth and ability and even affects the level of happiness.

Even if we don't do it every day, we can use it for two minutes with ourselves, to bring confidence before a crucial meeting at work or excitement before an important date.

The external movement drives an internal movement that helps us perform at our best in real time.

The "V" position of victory (Photo: ShutterStock)

An essay by 'Rapur'

"Rapore" means chemistry or closeness in French, and is like a mirror effect that is naturally created when there is a sense of common denominator in communication between people.

It is possible to summon the power of rapor also to create identification and a sense of closeness.

It is advisable not to do this excessively and literally copy every body gesture, but it is possible to reflect certain elements without completely "wearing" the body language of the opposite sex because then it loses its authenticity.

For example, if our partner leans forward, you can join the gesture and do the same movement in front of him.

Alternatively, you can also lead - lean a little forward and wait for your partner to join you.

It works!

Train your body to receive compliments

Have you noticed what happens to your body when someone compliments you?

It's interesting, but women tend more than men to "repel" compliments with the hand, in a movement that seems to throw the compliment back to the complimenter, or even actually block it and broadcast "No, what nonsense".

If this is how you react, practice with your body full acceptance of a compliment.

There is an optimal effect on both you and the person giving the compliment when you don't push it away but remain open and say with a smile "thank you" you can even "bring the compliment to the heart" with your hands.

Hands on the heart (Photo: ShutterStock)

charisma

In an age that is so saturated with distractions, one of the most important things about dating in relationships is the ability to maintain presence and active listening.

The way to do this is to use good eye contact and facial light.

Charisma researcher Olivia Fox Cabane explains that our presence in a conversation makes us more attractive.

That is why it is very advisable to avoid fiddling with the phone, looking to the side or diving into thoughts, and rather to increase presence in the here and now, to silence the phone or even to turn it so that it will transmit to the other side: here I am present and ready to listen.

Pushing hands (Photo: ShutterStock)

If it is important to us to create connection, and closeness, let the body and the space do the work for us: we will remove objects that separate us, we will keep open hands, eye contact, a smile and a light face.

This is how our body language both shapes our inner image and affects our relationships.

It is said in the proverb "As the face is to the face, so is the heart of man to man" just as our face is reflected in the water, so the heart is reflected in the person in front of us, and body language is decisive and plays an important role in creating closeness, cooperation, and great relationships.



The author Shani Peretz Karib is a lecturer and facilitator for performing in front of an audience and for personal development, the founder of the INSPIRE


conference, the largest digital conference in Israel for women lecturers, facilitators and inspirational speakers, which will take place on December 26-28. Registration for the live broadcasts is free of charge.

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Source: walla

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