"I had an abortion. On my own accord.
A little background: I'm 22 years old and I dated someone for six months, on his face a charming man, good looking, my tape stamp.
I found out that I got pregnant by surprise (we only did it with a condom and apparently it broke and he didn't notice or yes (?))
At first I didn't know whether to tell him or not and I was a little depressed because I knew what it meant, it means that if I bring this child now I stop my life, my dreams to study, bye.
My dream for a career, bye.
My dream To have a proper relationship and to travel and go out, bye.
Money? Bye.
In the end I told him and he said to leave it and that we would find the way and the money but not abort a human being (which is not really a human being yet right?)
In the end I decided to abort and I didn't tell him, I went to do it with a friend who supported me.
When I told him he attacked me and yelled and screamed how could I have murdered our child, how could I think only of myself.
I mention that it really put me into depression the thought of having a child that I have no way to take care of and I don't want him at all.
Why is it so terrible to think like that?
It's not murder in my eyes and it's my decision, I don't want a child now, and especially I don't want to have a baby that I can't take care of, for nothing (and my parents are not in the picture) abortion is better than having a baby for a whole life of lack and a depressed mother because she didn't get to do everything she she wanted
I do want a child when I'm established, with a family, a husband I love and the financial ability to support my baby..
Is it really that bad?
Think of myself first?
Was I wrong when I did that?
He still calls and wants us to come back and try again but I don't like him at all..."
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Agree with him - it's murder
For me it's murder, it's not that you're addicted to drugs or alcohol or something and can't take care of the child, besides that it's better to give birth to the child and send him for adoption because there are so many people in the world who are begging for children, and girls are dropping left and right, you also have support from the son A couple, it's not that you got pregnant from rape or you're in a very difficult situation in life and you could kill for him, and to those who say it's your body, I, as a woman, don't think it has anything to do with my body!
Yes, I'm pregnant for 9 months, but it's not only mine, it's also my partner's, and having an abortion on your own is complete egoism, not to mention the death of a living being!
I apologize for my harsh opinion, but this is how I think, you will never be ready to be a mother, every time you will have anxiety of one kind or another, I was ready to be a mother at the age of 15!
I tried to get pregnant and I didn't particularly succeed with a man who didn't deserve me to be with him at all, and it turns out that my body psychologist rejected it, later I changed my partner,
And of course I still wanted to be a mother, but when I got pregnant I felt like my whole life was running away from me, I felt unprepared, for a moment I didn't want to leave the pregnancy, but I said to myself... it's better to give birth first, I have so many in the family who want children so I would also give birth and I wouldn't feel If I could leave her, I would give her to relatives for adoption, and then along with the progress of the pregnancy I realized, my life has not stopped!
They just started with this perfect creature called a child!
I had a beautiful girl, two actually, and I don't regret it for a moment!
I was privileged to be with them abroad, I go out with friends if I want, I go to parties if I want, I started the real life because I grew up, but you are probably another little girl who has not grown up, I feel sorry for you.. Good luck.
It is better to give birth first. I have so many in the family who want children, so I would also give birth and I would not feel comfortable leaving her. I would give her to relatives for adoption, and then along with the progress of the pregnancy I realized, my life has not stopped!
They just started with this perfect creature called a child!
I had a beautiful girl, two actually, and I don't regret it for a moment!
I was privileged to be with them abroad, I go out with friends if I want, I go to parties if I want, I started the real life because I grew up, but you are probably another little girl who has not grown up, I feel sorry for you.. Good luck.
It is better to give birth first. I have so many in the family who want children, so I would also give birth and I would not feel comfortable leaving her. I would give her to relatives for adoption, and then along with the progress of the pregnancy I realized, my life has not stopped!
They just started with this perfect creature called a child!
I had a beautiful girl, two actually, and I don't regret it for a moment!
I was privileged to be with them abroad, I go out with friends if I want, I go to parties if I want, I started the real life because I grew up, but you are probably another little girl who has not grown up, I feel sorry for you.. Good luck.
What you did was disgusting and I'm not even talking about the abortion.
You are both responsible for your actions as adults, and if you are pregnant you are obligated to tell him, it's a, it's his baby too.
B.
You can't just abort without his consent, this is how disgusting a human being is.
but c.
In the end you miscarried because you thought about yourself..nice, well done to you.
You definitely murdered someone, but that's what it is and we've already done it, at least OWN IT and be honest with yourself about what you did.
Everything is good and if it is done legally then it is even better, but in the end you also did not take responsibility for your actions, you also hid from the father the fact that he had a baby in your belly, and you also killed/murdered call it whatever you want a baby that was whole from the moment whose sperm fertilized your egg and a small block of cells began to form that would slowly develop and become a human being in just a few months.
Good luck to you, dad and the dead baby.
It won't be easy to get pregnant after the abortion she had.
Maybe technically, but the trauma she brought on herself by having an abortion will accompany her for many years and it's a shame.
Abortion is murder.
point.
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Agree with her - not murder
I won't exaggerate with words because I don't have the strength, but in view of dark reactions here from people who still live in caves, I will summarize: your considerations were the most correct and you did the absolutely right thing considering them.
Embrace
you are perfectly fine
A child who will come into the world to parents who do not want him is unhappiness.
You did wisely.
When the time comes for you to have children, you will be ready and excited for it.
It will not be distressed.
First of all, I think you did the right thing (and even if you decided to leave it was the right thing) because it's your body!
The only thing you should have done differently is to have the conversation with him and come to an agreement, and even if not yet, let him know that it was your decision and what you chose instead of doing it behind his back.
You, and only you determine and decide on procedures in your body.
You are absolutely right about your arguments in light of the facts you stated.
It is not wise to have children if you are unable to give them.
Another thing, a condom is excellent (especially against diseases in a new relationship) but it is not enough.
I wouldn't trust anyone with this.
only about myself
And as for him continuing to call, if you don't like him, hang up.
Do not do something against your feelings and intuition.
Move on
You did the right thing because in the end we men stand on the sidelines and applaud for the nine months you gave of yourself and it doesn't end there.
He expected you to give yourself up for him but you are a smart girl with a head on your shoulders who understands that a boy at this stage in life can only stop you from your personal progress and your dreams.
On your own?
Maybe you could just tell him that's what you chose but if you were afraid of an extreme reaction then that's completely understandable.
Good luck and congratulations for the courage despite the diversity of opinions.
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You did what was right for you, but know that his soul is trapped inside your electromagnetic field and whoever sees hiddenness, sees it too
If you stand next to a transformer of the electric company, the soul is released from the field
Look at the wonders of God, it turns out that dropping a baby is more of an electromagnetic problem for you, the so-called law of conservation of energy (the errors in the source)
The metabolic differential of this reaction compiler is three octaves delusional from the cosmic oxymoron of the feline metadatabase.
Please say you're a troll, I don't want to live in a world where people actually believe in such nonsense
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