The tarot cards say: this is how you will go on a date in 2023 - voila! Spirit and horoscope

Tarot: a message for a relationship (Roni Tarot - tiktok.com/@ronistarot)

Many people who seek advice with tarot cards want to know - what to do?

But the cards often tell us not necessarily "what to do" but "how to do it".

How to do things in a way that is best adapted to our true benefit, our personal situation and also the spirit of the times?

So this time a student in our course did a counseling deployment for Hila whose dates are exhausting her and not making progress.

But Hila is not speaking here for herself, but for all the women who have experienced the same thing in recent years: going out on dates, drinking, having fun, but instead of just talking - they suddenly go deep: they tell about traumas, salvations and childhood experiences alongside life-changing enlightenment - and so on Then the guy disappeared. He was charming and all - but Next. So what's actually going on here?

Instead of casual meetings, here we have a whole relationship in one date, whether there was a kiss at the end or not.

This is what Hila told us about her dates recently: "Every date feels like some kind of intense relationship. At the end of the date, I already know who broke his heart at the age of 6 and at the age of 36, what his phobias are, his most cherished dreams and his mother's favorite color - but then he Not calling anymore."

the truth?

Not only Hila tells us this.

There are quite a few students and clients who come out of these dates very confused.

We can try to assume that the phenomenon stems from the impossible situation of the decade: from the gap between the possibility of constantly looking for something new and exciting in apps, and the fact that people still, as always, have a real need for intimacy.

The result is that many people are looking for some way to continue to maintain their freedom but also experience some kind of "instant-intimacy" - and then a mess ensues.

"But then he doesn't call anymore" (Photo: ShutterStock)

OK, but what do we do?

What can they all do?

So our Hila asked: "Am I doing the right thing on dates?"

And the main card that came out can be suitable for Hila but also for anyone who goes on such dates - the Queen of Coins.

Our Queen of Coins is very concrete and very to the point.

She has an organized schedule and her life is somewhat predictable but very rich and she is a powerful master - here is her advice for first dates, prepare yourself well:

. That's it? That's it? Yes.

This advice includes The secret of the queen of coins: caution, proportionality, not giving everything - setting limits - first of all to ourselves. That's it. The era of sitting for hours, pouring out our hearts or acting as a psychologist to the other party on our date is over. If it's so easy to waste our time, then

.

Coffee, a short conversation, that's what is needed to decide if it's right to go on to the next date.

The significant point - is that another date.

If it happens - then at least a certain consistency begins here, a willingness to move beyond that first "therapeutic" date that starts and ends with a bang.

Our date starts to prove serious on the second date.

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The Queen of Coins card (Photo: ShutterStock)

We must not attack marital relationships.

We must conserve our energy more at the beginning and if it is difficult for us, we can even set a timer, a warning after which we will get up from the table and say: "Your time has passed!".

Well, you can say a nice hello and give a little kiss on the cheek before you go (if you want).

We must remember that "leaving a taste for more" is not just a cliché but an important tactic that we need to implement.

On first dates it is important to keep a little to ourselves, not only our time but also our personal matters - and the Queen of Coins is always proportionate and does not "pour out" too much information right at the beginning.

That's not all: because we all know that even if we only set aside an hour for a date, the heart often continues the date long after.

We are easily drawn into fantasies about the next date and don't always manage to disconnect and move on with our lives, so it is most important

.

The Queen of Coins fills her life with work, a regular schedule and also with enriching pastimes - workshops, museums and more.

Her internal order and pleasant routine make it difficult for "time thieves" to enter her life, and inspired by her, our personal choices become much more qualitative.

When we feel good, when we have inner order and happiness - we don't let everyone in so easily - and that's first and foremost!

"A first date should last no more than an hour" (Photo: ShutterStock)

So we learned together with Hila how to go on a date in 2023.

Go out, get to know the little one, sniff, drink a short coffee and continue with today's tasks.

How does the Queen of Coins know all this?

Although the Tarot was created hundreds of years ago, the Queen is an ancient and temporal archetype, she represents common sense, order, love of beauty and art - and much more.

When we understand its essence, we can begin to find in it the source of guidance, meaning and direction in any subject.

We can begin to understand the messages it carries in a relationship, in interpersonal communication or in business - we begin to see beyond the card itself.

This is what we learn in the course - to connect to the inner wisdom of the cards, to help them reflect situations but also to give messages, whether they are simple or complex, they always hit the question or need of the questioner.

We see the cards themselves as valuable mentors that empower us so that we can be powerful mentors for our questioners.

• Spirit and horoscope

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