This tiktoker has a husband and a boyfriend who both love her and get along, and she posts her struggle in videos and holds discussions with her followers about polyamory, jealousy, and non-monogamous relationships.
This time the tiktoker published a video in which she "took out" the two men in her life for a joint time, and got some heat.
In a video uploaded this week, she faced the criticism she receives from the environment: "Being in a polyamorous relationship with two men who currently do not have other partners ... makes you ... hateful!"
she notes in the video, which has 171,400 views and counting.
"It turns out that I'm egotistical, delusional, narcissistic, and I need to let them go," she wrote.
In another video, she addressed the claim that she should immediately break up with one of them - either her husband, Ryan, or her boyfriend, Ronnie.
"I love the fact that everyone keeps telling me that I should dump one of them," she sarcastically replies to critics.
"Like, you realize they're just going to be in another polyamorous relationship, right? They don't want me to dump them. If they wanted to stop it they would dump me...I guess," she claims.
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But still, the haters, perhaps out of jealousy and perhaps because they really have a hard time with the reality she presents to them, continue to leave rude comments in her videos: "Anyone who doesn't care if another man stabs you doesn't really love you. If he really loved you he wouldn't Able to bear this situation," explained one user.
"What a twisted world we live in," complained another.
"I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than live like this," emphasized another.
The reality reflects a more positive attitude toward polyamory—a 2021 study in Frontiers in Psychology found that an impressive one in six respondents wanted to try polyamory, while one in nine reported having already experienced polyamory at some point in their lives.
She recently asked her two men to share their favorite thing about the other.
Her husband praised her boyfriend's cooking skills because it meant he didn't have to make dinner, and the boyfriend sweetly said of her husband: "He treats everyone with love and respect no matter what - because that's how you should behave."
"I'm a lucky woman!"
The partner captioned the video, hoping to convince her judgmental followers.
sheee is thinking of cracking a polyamorous relationship, but no contact at all.
Only shared cooking and viewings of the masked singer.
The girlfriend seems to have settled into a happy relationship, enjoying threesome dates.
Sarah even shared their sleeping arrangements.
In the clip, the men are seen sleeping in their beds with their hands glued with glue.
When one of the viewers caught on and asked why the men were being recorded, Sarah responded, "Because everyone already thinks I'm holding them hostage."
And while Sarah often faces hateful comments, she also gets a lot of support.
"Living her best life," praised one viewer.
"Lucky girl like you," answered another.
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