Valentine’s Day︱Survey shows that Hong Kong people believe that inclusive communication is more important than sex and money, calling for counseling to resolve differences

Valentine’s Day is a day designated by many couples to go on a date. A dating company released a questionnaire survey today (14th). Among the 309 married people interviewed, it was found that most of the respondents think tolerance (91%) And communication (90%) is the best way to maintain a marriage, much higher than sex (52%) and money (47%).

And more than 80% of the respondents said that even if the marriage is not always happy, they still love their partners, and more than 95% of the respondents are more confident that their marriage will last forever.

The dating company "Hong Kong Marriage" interviewed 309 married people from January 16 to February 10 to understand their marital status, mentality and how to manage their marriage.

The results of the survey found that nearly four adults think that marriage is bittersweet. 84% of the respondents said that even if the marriage is not always happy, they still love their partners. Couples get married, and more than nine-and-a-half (96%) of the respondents expressed confidence that their marriage will last forever.

96% of respondents are confident that marriage will last forever

In marriage, it is inevitable that there will be disagreements. 74% of the respondents said they would communicate rationally, followed by 53% who said they would take the initiative to make concessions.

91% of the respondents believe that tolerance is the best way to maintain a marriage. In addition, communication is equally important (90%), much higher than sex life (52%) and money (47%).

Another half (52%) of the recipients believed that the communication skills of the other half had room for improvement, followed by temper, accounting for 51%. Only 12% of the respondents believed that the other half had no room for improvement.

In response to the survey results, "Hong Kong Marriage" means that people can try marriage counseling regardless of whether they are pre-married or after marriage. The founder Zhang Huiping pointed out that pre-marital and post-marital counseling is very common in the West, but it has not been popularized in Asia due to factors such as traditional concepts .

She suggested counseling before marriage, so as to understand the values ​​of both parties early on, to examine the strengths and weaknesses of one's own personality, and to learn how to get along and coordinate with the other half, and to find a counselor for professional counseling if there are differences that cannot be resolved after marriage.

"Hong Kong Marriage" also proposes five marriage "love languages", including first, affirmative praise, encouragement and gratitude; second, thoughtful gifts; third, service actions, such as cooking a meal for the other party, for His massage; fourth, the moment of careful solitude; fifth, intimate and intimate physical contact.

Zhang Huiping believes that by fulfilling the above five points, emphasizing commitment, communication, tolerance, and respect, marriage can last forever.

Elderly Remarriage Emphasizes Mutual Respect

The 81-year-old Mr. Guo and his 69-year-old wife were married 7 years ago. Both are their second marriages. They believe that mutual respect is the key to maintaining a marriage. If they encounter things they don’t like, they should admit it. To change each other, but to solve problems together; Mr. Qiu and his wife, who have been married for 37 years, think that marriage is necessary, because it is a promise to each other, and it can also make each other feel safe. Mr. Qiu also said that he met his wife in sixth form , Never thought about getting a divorce.

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