There are specialists in all kinds of disciplines.
Each one contributes their knowledge to the field that corresponds to them.
And this couple does exactly that.
They define themselves as "threesome experts" and for several years they have turned this activity into a way of life.
Bonnie and Tommy Slayed
are British and have been together for over eight years.
From the beginning they maintained an open relationship and, according to what they stated, the inclusion of other people in their sexual life is part of the success of their bond.
Out of monogamy from the start They met in 2015 through a dating app.
Back then, she was in Scotland and he was in England.
“Our relationship was always
non-monogamous
.
When we met, we lived in different countries, so it made sense that this was the case," they both explained to
Clarín
.
The first time they met in person, they filmed their initial
video
of erotic content.
And naturally other practices appeared.
Between photos, videos and other types of materials, today they are a success, among other platforms, on OnlyFans.
Bonnie and Tommy Slayed always maintained a relationship outside of monogamy.
Instagram photo.
“We were open with what we wanted to try from the moment we met.
So it wasn't long before we started experimenting with other people, alone and together.
We both enjoy the excitement of inviting a third party to the room... or couples," they said.
They, who assure that their "sex life was already incredible", highlighted that the dynamics of adding people increased emotion and enjoyment.
Passionate about threesomes
When mentioning the benefits that a threesome can bring to the couple, Bonnie and Tommy made it clear that it goes deeper than the number of people they are intimate with.
For them, "being truly open about your desires with your partner brings you closer together."
In this framework, they added, "sharing experiences -especially something for the first time- can also generate positive consequences."
Both always know who is the third.
Instagram photo.
One of the fundamental keys for everything to flow, they indicated, is
communication
.
Although they admitted that feelings of jealousy or insecurity can sometimes appear, "it is important to tell your partner clearly how you feel."
In addition, there is a kind of pact between them: when they meet for the first time with people other than the couple, for example, for security reasons they always share their location.
In addition, both always know who is the third.
The rest of the time, they affirmed, they maintain a daily life very similar to that of any family, together with their
two children
.
"We are a normal couple who enjoy good food, nature and the simpler things in life," they said.
Tips from an expert couple in threesomes
For Bonnie and Tommy Slayed, assertive communication is essential.
Instagram photo.
Bonnie and Tommy Slayed put assertive communication at the top of the healthy practices to achieve the success of a relationship of this type and their practices:
"Communication is everything: stating clearly what your desires are and what you like can only make sex better."
Always check with your partner every single thing during sexual activities to verify consent and make sure you both enjoy.”
Bonnie and Tommy urged to always check everything during sexual activities to verify consent.
Instagram photo.
"Take it easy, you don't have to rush into 'full sex' on the first date."
"It's only fun if everyone is having fun."
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