Where will you pay us: the financial aspect is a factor in love - this is how you prepare in advance Israel today

The month of February, when we celebrated Valentine's Day, is coming to an end.

A good time to shed light on another aspect of relationships and money - what happens during the warm-up phase of relations between spouses.

At this stage it seems that there is chemistry between two people, and it is time to reveal and get to know more aspects of the other person's personality in general and those related to money in particular.

Conversations at this stage begin to include an increasing disclosure of personal issues and may also reveal vulnerabilities.

This stage is important because you can discover the "real self" of your partner.

The media should be more open and show who we really are.

It is possible to examine whether there is compatibility or not, and the question of tightening the relationship.

Important questions that you can consider asking the other person at this stage in the relationship and related to money:

What life experiences have you had that affected your relationship with money?

Did you grow up financially well off?

in poverty?

Have you encountered a situation where the other person missed a payment and paid a fine for it?

How important is work and career to each of you?

Is the other person promoting himself professionally or is he stuck in a job with no way out?

How would you feel and how would the other person feel if someone lost their job and the other person had to assist and support him?

Do any of you have large financial debts?

Does the debtor know the repayment terms?

interest?

sum?

period?

Are any of you involved in habits that could potentially sabotage your financial situation, such as gambling or high-risk investments.

How do you and the other understand insurance?

As insurance buyers, are you interested in the terms and coverage?

What is insured and what is not?

If today you or the other person inherits a respectable amount of money, what will you do with it?

What would you prefer to invest in?

If there is an investment where you can either double the money or lose half of it, would you join it?

And the other?

These are just examples.

Addressing these and other issues related to money at this stage in the relationship is extremely important.

So let there be a lot of love.

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