There is nothing sexier than confidence.
If you don't believe us, try to remember the last time you thought to yourself "what the hell did I do with him?".
His confidence mesmerized you, that's what.
In any case, a woman who loves herself, who is not ashamed of her body and is full of self-confidence - radiates tons of sexaphilia.
This also includes a lot of awareness of what makes you feel good, of course - knowing how to ask for it, and feeling super comfortable with it.
If until now you thought you should be submissive, soft and gentle in bed, think again, adopt a slightly different attitude and tell him what really makes you feel good, without shame.
You will be surprised to find out how much the sex improves, also from his point of view.
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"let's try lube"
There is nothing to be done, we are different from each other, and not everyone can produce Bartoline in a sufficient amount to make sex pleasant.
Sometimes also hormonal changes following medication or physical changes can cause us to be a little drier below.
Either way, how is it necessary to be ashamed to ask for some outside help.
So what luck that lubricant was invented?!
You don't have to worry that the guy will feel that he doesn't make you horny enough, just pull it off at the height of casualness, because it really is such a common and useful thing.
When you use it, you will feel the difference, and then both of you won't understand how you didn't put this miracle in before.
There are so many options - flavors, textures, companies - all that's left is to choose
"Let's use a vibrator"
Basically, if they could get us pregnant and put together the new Ikea dresser, we might as well replace the average man with a sex accessory.
But now seriously, a vibrator is a wonderful thing outside of bed, and can be a very upgrading thing for sex with a partner.
If you are afraid that it might lower your partner's self-confidence, you can start with something smaller, more cooperative, like a vibration ring that is worn on the member, and from there continue to something more serious.
You can also explain to him that you want to diversify, and let him really be a part of it.
He will soon realize that not only does it give you pleasure and improves sex, it also saves him quite a bit of work.
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"do it in my hand"
This is really the basic of the basic.
I don't know a girl who just at the beginning wanted someone to penetrate her without a light foreplay (maybe only after watching Michael Lewis flip corks, but that's a foreplay in itself).
So of course if the guy is not experienced or considerate enough, allow yourself to direct him there.
By the way, it is not only about the act itself, but also about the tuning.
Don't be shy to give instructions - faster, slower, gently, or even take his hand and show him what exactly makes you feel good.
Eventually he will pick up the principle, and from time to time you will have to direct him less.
And if after a long time you suddenly feel like something a little different - don't be ashamed to ask.
"get off me"
If you've never experienced a tongue down there, you don't know what awaits you.
By the way, even if you have already been dropped off in the past, and the current partner for some reason does not initiate a trip to the "downtown" himself, there is no reason not to ask him yourself.
It could be that he is just not really into it or not fully experienced, and therefore afraid to get there.
Don't assume he's disgusted.
Many women do not enjoy going down on their partner, but will happily do it if they know it makes him feel good, let him surprise you.
If you have any concern that the act will disgust him, you can always shower before and use soap for intimate bathing.
Or just think about the state of his balls, and realize that everything is absolutely fine with you down there.
In general, remember that everything is relative.
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"Let's try rimming"
Or in its less washed-up name - lick my ass.
I agree, this is indeed an act that is a bit more advanced, but you really shouldn't be ashamed to try it, otherwise you will never know how it feels - and it feels great.
As opposed to just "going down", in the case of reaming you have to arrive very clean, it's a matter of hygiene, and I would even say a matter of sanitation.
I guess you wouldn't want to kiss that mouth after the act, unless you're in pharmacy cleaning mode.
So how do you ask for something like this from your partner?
You can start to get him used to this matter that also needs to be addressed to your rectum, by asking him to insert a finger there, or even just to irritate the area and not really penetrate there.
It's less daunting, for starters, and so will you see for yourself if you enjoy it.
After we get used to it and progress, the area will look more familiar and less stressful, and then putting your tongue in there will not look very strange.
By the way, it is very likely that he will also enjoy this trick, just saying.
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