Yes, also sex with a passed out man: the female fantasies that are not talked about - voila! Sheee

Although almost every sexual fantasy that someone has somewhere in the world can already be found online in 4HD and there is almost no need to use the imagination, there is still a (small) difference between watching actors fulfill your fantasy on a flat screen and actually carrying it out, and in depth - and as long as it is so , our fantasies will remain relevant.

Many studies have tried to get to the bottom of this phenomenon, and although none of them were able to come away with conclusive conclusions - it is still a fascinating subject.

The study was conducted among 1516 adults, approximately half men and half women, who were asked to rate 55 sexual fantasies and indicate their favorite.

Fantasies of control or the fantasy of being controlled were the most popular in women as well as in men.

Only two sexual fantasies surveyed by the team were found to be rare among women, and even those should not be judged harshly.

What matters is what the fantasy does to you, not its content.

That's what the researchers and psychologists said, and we have no choice but to agree.

A little whipping what happened (photo: ShutterStock)

To be dominated

46.7% of women want to be completely dominated in bed.

Not a big surprise, really.

I was already done being surprised when the worst book in the world, 50 shades of gray, was such a resounding success.

It is not difficult to understand why people like to be dominated in bed - after all, sex carries with it huge amounts of shame and guilt in Western countries, because almost all of us were raised on the knees of religion or remnants of Puritan religion, and together with messages that are conveyed to us in the media, most women have it stuck in their heads that they are not allowed to have sex Just for the sex, because they will think bad things about them, or at least things that will prevent them from getting married.

So being controlled or being controlled gives a kind of vacation to the mind and a kick to the inhibitions, because as it were, the responsibility for your actions is removed from you as long as you "don't control" them.

Like going back to being a little girl with no commitments.

This is one way to let go.

Another way is to stop being spineless and do whatever you want with whoever you want and occupy your mind with more important moral issues.

Just saying

When I say sex in a public place, I don't mean in the bathroom of an airplane or in a dressing room, when maybe some bitch hears or maybe not.

The intention in a public place is in a shopping mall, or a club, on a square, or in the city square, where people are nearby and can look, or advise and make comments.

whatever they want.

A public place after all.

This fantasy inhabits the minds of 57.3% of the women who participated in the survey.

which is a lot!

Men like the idea too, of course.

But men love any idea that has sex in it, so it's not wise.

I wonder what exactly is in the psychological makeup of these women that tends to go there, because I try to imagine myself having sex in a public place and getting penetrated.

Like, if it's hard to undress in front of one new person, I'm just imagining my mental distress with twenty strangers looking on.

Brrrrrrrrr

When you don't know each other but fall really well.

Anonymous sex (Photo: ShutterStock)

Anonymous sex

but completely anonymous.

I mean, not someone you met on Tinder and talked to for a bit, but someone you met on the street, or in the romantic 4 line.

A complete stranger, one whose name you don't even know.

48% of women, which is a huge amount, reported that this is one of their most dominant fantasies - to have sex with a stranger who won't talk to them, who they have nothing to do with.

A stranger who will just fuck and leave, without forplay, without finding out if you enjoyed it and without leaving traces.

And I ask, if sex with a complete stranger does that to you, as you admitted in a secret survey, why in real life do you make such a big deal about the fact that your poor, tired husband forgot to ask how his day was at work?

At least in this secret survey of ours, admit that you are a compulsive

Yes yes, what you hear.

28.9% of women have this fantasy, which psychology calls the "rape fantasy".

They still haven't fully understood where this strange desire to rape comes from, by the way, but the percentages speak for themselves.

Of course, the women who answered the questions in the survey don't really want a real rapist to catch them on the street (at least I really hope so) but rather fantasize about a situation where it is determined in advance, but the game is played to the end, so that it is as believable as possible.

I mean he breaks into your house, you try to run away and fight him with all your might and he subdues you with full force, otherwise it's not exciting.

I find that there are more disadvantages than advantages in an episode like this, what's more, it's the most un-METOO#.

The advantage?

It will not be difficult for you to find a man who will cooperate with you

This is new - she is tied up and he is also passed out, and they also have an audience (Photo: ShutterStock)

What's your weird fantasy?

anonymous

under duress

fainting man

whippings

publicly

photographed

controlled

Whipping and beating

is one of the only fantasies that the number of women who share it exceeds that of men - 36.9% of women want to be spanked during sex.

I wonder selfishly, is it possible that for once men came out more sane?

I'm rubbing my eyes right now, because for some reason I was sure that it was men who liked a little violence in their sex more.

Besides the fact that the times I tried it myself I felt retarded and started laughing, the main reason I don't understand it, is because it fucking hurts.

I don't like being in pain.

I don't know anyone who loves someone who hurts.

People make a big deal out of the smallest headache, but do they want to be beaten when they are naked and defenseless?

why the hell

Why?

But yes, according to the survey.

A third of the women want to be whipped, shake you, give them little caps with a matcha and pull their hair.

Is it possible that this is an archaic remnant of the sacrificial state of mind that we have been clinging to for centuries?

Do not judge (judge, judge)

Somehow, 31.9% of women hold this fantasy.

It may be related to that part of the soul that wants to be completely exposed, all at once, and thus overcome the shame, and it may be just part of everyone's morbid desire to be famous, but a third of women fantasize about a situation where they have sex and are photographed.

And we're not just talking about a couple having sex and turning on a camera themselves (although the data shows that there is a 95% chance that this film will end up on the Internet as well), we're talking about a situation where a third party is in the room, and he's holding the camera and even directing.

Although if you're going to take pictures, the frames should come out nice and balanced, and if he's already found, he should do something.

except by a

Only 10.8% of women fantasize about exploiting a passed out/dead/don't know man.

I mean, sleeping is a less good idea, because he will probably wake up and demand to cooperate and be active, and a man in a coma is probably illegal.

So a dead drunk?

Come on, let's say.

It has advantages.

For example, he doesn't talk and has no preferences, you don't have to worry about being photogenic, and also because if he falls asleep immediately after that anyway, at least that way he doesn't stop you from cumming.

Anyway, I've always argued that sex is mostly about masturbating when someone is bothering you, so I understand.

except for one thing.

Why do you need a drunk man who doesn't know his name if the goal is to cum and go to sleep?

In my humble opinion there are other and much less tedious methods to achieve the same goal, without some passed out drunk breathing in your face

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