Researchers sat and worked on this, and came to a sweeping conclusion, pay attention - men experience orgasm more often than women in a heterosexual relationship.
And after we fell off the couch, they also came up with something less obvious, and even a bit interesting:
women tend to reach fewer orgasms in sexual relations with men (pretty sure it doesn't happen to two women) if they are under a time limit, or if they have an unaware and closed partner , they will give up in advance and will not strive to reach orgasm.
According to research led by Rutgers University, "there are contextual, social and personal factors that likely create barriers that prevent women from feeling able to actively pursue orgasm," said Grace Wetzel, a social psychology doctoral student who advocates for "orgasm equality" on Instagram, where she has more than 21,000 followers. .
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according to the study published in the Journal of Sex Research, women prefer, instead of talking about it directly, to use hints and non-verbal signals with their partner, and then adjust their pursuit of orgasm accordingly, and this changes in each sexual encounter, according to the situation.
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In a series of experiments, researchers had heterosexual women imagine themselves in a sexual scenario with such a partner, and limit themselves in time, and the subjects reported their results based on how intense the orgasm was and how difficult it was to reach it.
According to Wetzel, the research indicates that women who actively strive for orgasm as a stated goal have a higher chance of reaching it, as opposed to flowing with the situation and letting circumstances dictate it.
While men tend to orgasm more frequently than women—a phenomenon known as the "orgasm gap"—researchers say couples can create a sexually stimulating environment in which a woman's orgasm is more likely by combining open sexual communication and clitoral stimulation.
Wetzel suggests that instead of waiting it is.
From them, men will tell their partner's daughters that they want her pleasure in bed to be a priority for both of them, without putting too much pressure on their partner to reach orgasm.
Just saying the words and stating the clear intention
can greatly influence the woman's mindset towards the act and her orgasm, you will feel more comfortable actively pursuing her (guiding, directing, asking clearly) and this significantly increases the chances of feeling the maximum of the sensual and sexual potential.
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