As in almost every field, sex is also full of myths and baseless rumors.
Sometimes we tend to believe them only because we don't know otherwise, or are simply afraid to ask.
What to do, not all of us know how to talk about sex freely and openly.
In these myths, most of us have fallen and it's time to open up, talk, and yes - learn from the mistakes of others (otherwise, what are they useful for us?
Myths are like garbage, and this is exactly the place to put some order in the mess. We are different from each other, and each of us likes different things, or reacts differently to things, and if we like different things, then it can't be that all the rules, and certainly the myths, apply to all of us. So let's clear things up, break some rules, and along the way we'll check which myths it's time to stop believing. It's lucky there's a doctor, because
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Size does matter
A man and a woman in bed (Photo: ShutterStock)
Well, this may be the oldest myth in the book, and if you still believe it, then you probably haven't had sex yet.
And that's okay, we're here to explain.
Many of the most sensitive areas in the vaginal canal are in the very first few inches of it, so you don't really need a big tool to do the job.
What's more, come on, most women don't finish penetration, so actually you don't even need a penis to enjoy good sex.
Point (G) for thought.
Performance is important
It turns out that what affects the quality of sex has nothing to do with sex itself.
Kate Scalisi, certified in public health and sex educator, explains that the things that make sex good are not necessarily what moves we know how to do in bed.
It turns out that it's not the age or the exercise, but things like high trust in the partner, reduced stress and strong affection for each other (yes, it's not written love on purpose).
If these factors exist the sex will be better, and not thanks to your flexibility or his fitness.
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Double orgasms
There is a lot of talk about multiple orgasms, some women do have them, but it really isn't mandatory.
Just as not all of us do chains of orgasms, some of us also have orgasms that come in isolation.
It's true, some women are able to go on and on, but there are also women who can't be touched after orgasm, and that's okay too.
Listen to your clit, it knows what's good.
Solitude is also good (Photo: ShutterStock)
Men need to cum to have fun
Dr. Christina Romero-Bush and her husband Dr. John Robinson, known as "the sex doctors" (it is very interesting who gave them this nickname), claim that most men feel that sex is only done to reach the desired goal - to cum.
They explain that men can slow down enough to enjoy the process itself, and that they don't have to cum to have pleasure.
Pleasant?
Did we come here for a pleasant way?
Sex should last for hours
No.
Sex should last as long as you want it to last.
Contrary to popular belief, studies show that couples enjoy sex that lasts between 3-13 minutes, which is about the time of a shower, but each to their own.
It really depends on who you are with, what the mood is, where you are and why you are having sex.
All of these can affect the times, and between us, sometimes there is nothing nicer and more satisfying than a quickie.
A woman with a vibrator in bed (Photo: ShutterStock)
You can get addicted to the vibrator
not exactly.
According to Kate Scalisi, qualified in public health, and sex educator, the body gets used to the orgasm experience in a certain way, and we can get stuck with this style.
The more times you do something, the more significant its neural pathways become, and if we try to change the way we experience orgasm, for example, it may be more difficult and strange.
But like everything in life, it's all about habit and practice.
The recommendation is to start trying to change the way we use the vibrator, for starters.
Even if you climax at the highest intensity, try to play with the intensities, change positions and even buy a new toy.
The degree of wetness is not an indication
The truth is, if you need more lubricant than your body produces, it really does not mean that you are not stimulated.
Dr. Iva Kadel, a clinical sexologist and qualified sex instructor, explains that many people measure stimulation by the degree of wetness, but this is not always accurate. What to do, you are not a syringe, and you cannot simply squirt on demand. Factors such as the menstrual cycle, age The transition, illness or pregnancy can affect this, and it doesn't really matter how much water you give today. But keep drinking a lot of water, it's certainly not a myth.
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