How to find a relationship with the help of 9 swords?
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The tarot cards do not only represent lessons and messages - but also types, character patterns and personalities.
Today we would like to check how to date the King of Swords aka Libra.
How will we recognize that we are in his midst?
How do we know how to win his heart?
And what to watch out for?
Let's remember that although the cards themselves have a certain gender, but because they are archetypes - we can all recognize in ourselves a bit of the King of Cups or a bit of the Queen of Swords.
So we set out to explore what it's like to date the King of Swords, a court card.
What he likes, what he doesn't like, what will repel him or make him yours forever (hopefully).
Want to go out with him?
Here's what awaits you:
What type is he?
The King of Swords is a calm, intelligent, gentle and pleasant type and you won't believe it - he even has good taste.
Yes yes, he is aesthetic, knows how to match colors, and maybe he is even an expert in matching colors, he may be an artist or an amateur or professional photographer.
He has an eye for beauty, and knows how to find charm and charm in people, people, texts and situations.
He has a developed sense of justice and extraordinary diplomatic ability.
He is considerate, human and can sympathize with the pain of his neighbors, his beloved dog, and also the flies that stay in the oppressive heat (poor people).
His only problem is that, although he is soft and easy-going, he doesn't talk about what bothers him and often he accumulates and accumulates until a breaking point from which it is difficult to return.
What is he looking for in a relationship?
It is divided into two (and remember that "he" can also be "she" - this is just an archetype that can appear in a person of any gender).
Often he will look for a partner similar to him - he will look for the quiet, the gentleness, the beauty and the love for aesthetics.
But this king, since he is sometimes unbalanced, may or may also seek someone who is the complete opposite - very opinionated, strong, powerful and strongly self-expressive.
It's great as long as these opposites are not extreme - but complementary and relatively close in their expressive doses.
But he should note that he is not looking for a partner who will complete the missing parts in him, or someone with whom the communication is not balanced.
What is it like to go on a date with a Libra? (Photo: Naama Mandelbaum)
how is he on a date
A date with this king will most likely be a classic date.
Dinner and a movie, but maybe, because of his great love for aesthetics, he would actually be happy to go to a movie, to a show, but mostly he will try to draw you towards the plastic arts, such as a great exhibition of photographs or paintings, also a fun trip to a charming area like Old Jaffa (in the center) or the Baha'i Gardens ( in Haifa) or the anemone field closest to your home in Moshav comes into consideration.
No matter where you live in the country or in the world, the king knows how to identify beautiful places that instill a pleasant atmosphere and a desire to walk around, talk and travel.
He will of course be polite and a gentleman, and most importantly - he will want to listen to you and not just talk.
He will teach you and try to understand how best to cultivate the relationship with you.
He will show care and empathy.
Even if nothing came out of the date, you will feel that you met a charming person in this world.
How should I start with him?
wow
First of all, he will be so happy if you start with him.. He likes to feel loved, considered, wanted.
But, things must be done gently.
This king cannot be attacked.
He is gentle, diplomatic, and relatively orderly in his approach.
It takes time for him to take off all the shields.
If you want to start with him, talk to him about social issues, about exhibitions and beauty, about the importance of education in shaping the future generation.
Sounds boring to you?
You will no longer think like that after he will be completely charmed and immediately agree to continue the conversation over a cup of coffee.
He will also like a very beautiful flower, especially if you explain to him the origin of the flower, and what the colors symbolize.
He is very sensitive to small details and it will be unforgettable.
What to watch out for?
With this king, as we said, one of the important things is to make sure that he expresses himself regularly.
It won't help to get things out of him "by force".
It is necessary, a bit like a flower, to give it conditions to open up and share itself.
However this is something you will probably have to work on together.
But you will have to check that there is a partner here who is ready to express the things so that the friendship gets stronger and can last for a long time.
You should beware of extreme lack of tarot or unrestrained expression of emotions.
It is true that you should always avoid this, but Libra is particularly sensitive to this.
He has a very hard time with criticism because he always wants to come out "okay".
So you can say everything comfortably.
Why do you need it?
Because it gives a feeling of "Europe".
It is true that we have long been able to jump to Europe whenever we want, but it's like feeling a little bit in Paris with him.
Everything is tasteful, fascinating conversations, gourmet experiences, enjoyment of every detail and a life experience of beauty, grooming and style.
He is a great man of the world, so there is no doubt that you will travel to many places, he will always invest, and show love, kindness, tenderness and a lot of wisdom.
Short.. worth it.
Daily horoscope for Libra >>
The author is Sagi Mandelbaum.
Director of the School of Personal Fulfillment, Tarot and Dreams, author of the bestseller "The Guide to Reading the Tarot Cards", deals in classical homeopathy, has 27 years of experience in studying and teaching courses and workshops on personal development, tarot and dreams.
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