Monica Holdt explains why she lets her husband sleep with other women (LOVE DON'T JUDGE)
Here is the story of someone who defines herself as a "traditional wife" because she lives to please her husband, while he has sex with other women.
Monica Holdt, 37, who was not long ago a teacher turned daring nude model at Unipans, says she dedicates her life to pleasing her husband John, 39, even though it has caused her to lose friends over the years.
"I had childhood friends who simply told me to my face that I had lost my dignity as a woman," she said in an interview.
A typical day for the nude model (who calls herself the Swedish Bella on social media) includes preparing meals for John, cleaning the house and working out, but not choosing clothes for herself, as her husband chooses what to wear for her.
"John likes that I dress nicely at home, in such a sexy, sporty style, and he's not ready for me to wear make-up at home," she says, "some women might not like being told what to do, but I like being given instructions. When I perform, it makes him To feel good,
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While Monica claims that she is both able to do her chores around the house and satisfy her husband's needs in bed, he still brings other women home to have sex with him.
"This thing of sleeping with other women, first of all, it's a really small part of our relationship," John told Love Don't Judge.
"Monica was fine with it, and I was fine with it," he claimed.
"I think it's a luxury that I have that probably most men would want you to have - just because of genetic programming. That's how we're genetically programmed."
He went on to provide a "scientific explanation" for the fact that he sleeps with other women even though he is married: "If you look at all the other mammals - this is how they do it. Usually the alpha male does all the other females," he explained, adding that their lifestyle created They have a much more relaxed relationship.
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When it comes to the married couple's sex life, Monica explains that the fact that her husband is so dominant is something that turns her on.
"I love when a man takes responsibility and takes what he wants. I'm always available for my husband's needs and I love it. It turns me on so I have no problems with it."
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Monica's approach to married life is not her invention and she is called Tradwife - this term is a linguistic innovation for the traditional housewife and has recently become popular in contemporary Western culture.
It usually depicts a woman who believes in traditional gender roles and traditional marriage.
These women believe that a woman does not lose her rights and/or freedom by choosing to take on a more traditional role in married life.
Some choose to leave their careers to focus instead on family and household chores.
On TikTok, there are more and more young women who present their lifestyle as "traditional housewives from the last century" when they wear fancy dresses, a tight apron around the waist and pearl earrings for cleaning the house or cooking.
While many may be shocked by their old-fashioned approach to married life, Monica believes that many relationships would be happier if more women adopted this way of thinking.
"If people weren't so opposed to the idea and just tried it, I think they would realize that it works. People are so unhappy today, always looking for the next thrill - so why not just embrace who we are, the way we were created? There would be less like this divorce, and I think overall people will be happier," she said.
Monica also claims that her husband John is "super supportive" and is never jealous of her bold OnlyFans career - as thanks to her the couple live in a luxurious home and use her income from the bold nude photos to travel the world.
"He helps me edit the photos and comes up with ideas," said Monica about John's involvement in her career, "I may be a housewife but we are a team."
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The couple currently have no children, but when they do, Monica says she plans to raise them "traditionally" like her marriage.
"If we have a girl, I will teach her everything I know about how to be a good wife, and my husband will do the same with our son. I believe that the mere fact that a woman chooses to be a Tradwife, it does not make her weak. In fact, the opposite is true - required Strength to defy and go against the norm in today's society," Monica added.
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