I have to admit that at the beginning of the season, until three or four episodes ago, I had almost no one to gossip about the couples with, but in the last few weeks, maybe because of the trash effect of the return of a generation, the conversations about the show suddenly increased, just like that with random women in a cafe.
There was a lot of talk about the strange square between Dor, Dor, Shaked and Noya, and his return stirred the spirits and gave rise to some speculations and conspiracies - some thought he still wanted Noya, the other part did not understand what he found in Noya's structure. Abandonment fears are mostly female, but I heard the most anger in connection with Shauli's criticism of Daniel in the previous episode.
The words "petty" and "childish", burned several open wounds, and the support for Daniel who cut Mashauli (in my opinion a stupid, petty and childish move) was overwhelming.
But let's start from light to heavy:
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Unleash the plucking - Dor and Noya
Maybe a little less marketing content?
Thank you (photo: screenshot, Network 13)
For starters, couldn't we have been spared some of the ingredients of the facial they did?
Was it necessary for you to know the details of the cream they applied to us that we needed to hear?
And Gigi, if you thought that such aggressive advertising was serving you - then it's not.
It's just desperate and boring.
Like the last day of Dor and Noya.
Love this girl, Noya.
I don't think people understand her, especially those who think she's a dog.
She is not a dog, she is the most greedy in the country with her Bach flowers and obsessive morning exercise.
After what she's been through, come on, you have to appreciate her behavior with the past generation and the future generation - sitting with them, chatting, doing laundry, hugging - Alek "I didn't agree with him bringing cream into the house."
After six days and zero physical contact she crowned herself his gracious divorcee in a second.
It's not easy to make such a switch, to release your own hurt and embrace Dor's new relationship, especially while you experience failure after disappointment.
It's not easy at all, it requires a lot of self-confidence and generosity.
Well done to her.
I don't want to talk about the second generation.
He's already gone, what can be said about him?
That he came out a little desperate with the mob of "So I thought about it and I want to give you your time", on the morning of decision day?
Yes, well, he was told the truth.
He probably thought that if Noya knew he was interested in moving on, she'd be more likely to keep him, but that only revealed that he's a lot less confident than he's trying to appear.
Admittedly, at first I quite bought his presentation as a mature and considerate man who knows what he wants - a serious man, who does not shy away from hard work, but in the end he was freed in the farewell conversation.
There is nothing less manly and less mature than reacting to rejection the way he did.
He was angry with her, accusing her of "messing up", and not telling the truth, while Noya was super honest with him all along, some would say too honest.
After all the "never mind what happened before", and the "I'm not stressed", in the end it was the talk of someone trying to look strong, but even though he knew all the right words, his ego betrayed him.
She would very much like to be in the business of the next generation, but what can she do if she isn't?
No, nothing will help.
Each of us knew that man who could have been perfect for her because he was exactly what she needed.
But what to do if he is not what you want?
Dor and Shaked
flowing with tattoos.
Dor and Shaked (Photo: Screenshot, Network 13)
I have to admit that I have a problem with Dor.
He is an annoying Tel Aviv kid of the type I can't stand, and all I see in him are fakes and shows.
It didn't help much that in the previous episode he told Dor about his feelings "it's just a game" which is the most brutal thing you can say to the girl you're dating now, and the most betrays the fact that he doesn't come to find a relationship necessarily, but to be on TV and "flow" with the results.
In addition, I don't have the strength to see him flying on a kickbox and "flowing on a tattoo".
He made a rose and she made a wave, and please bring it to me in the most generic way.
And the pearls, oh, the pearls: "flowing like a wave, blooming like a flower".
And they laugh as if it is a special kind of wit.
Well, you really did.
At least Shaked appreciates his monkey skills, and that's something too, I guess.
Beyond my slight allergy to him since his awkward display with Noya, even now, when he's supposedly changed 180 degrees, he still doesn't feel authentic to me.
He and Shaked don't look like people having a relationship, more like two people caught up in a poker game.
Alter ego against alter ego, every moment one of them compares and surpasses, and the first to break down and admit that he is not completely "flowing", and that not "everything is good", "check", loses the pot.
They are indeed a kind of enjoyer, but they try so hard to meet the imagined expectations of the other party, that watching them is exhausting like nothing else.
Until the moment of decision, when something really opens up.
Apparently Shaked's anxiety that it wouldn't work out was released after Dor told her that he wanted her to stay, and we finally got to feel something from him as well.
Her repressed fear of being hurt like she had in the army drained into this moment, and her walls fell.
It wouldn't surprise me if the ex in question was also the one who infected her with the boxing bug - extreme.
Her crying also released the drama-loving generation, and he promised her that he would do everything so that she wouldn't get hurt, and really?
It was lovely of him, and also the most anyone could promise.
From that moment I began to like him more and more.
His statement to Noya that he was attached to her was also a moment of magic, the moment when he hugs Shaked and caresses her head was all authentic emotion.
Come on, maybe now they'll stop brainstorming about tattoos and flow and talk about something interesting.
Releasing fears.
Yuval and Nir
Overcome your fears and earn.
Yuval Vanir (Photo: Screenshot, Network 13)
Nir and Yuval went to Haifa to a bar that is like her second home, a place where she feels herself, in a good way.
Happily he managed to get his head out of his own ass long enough to enjoy himself.
He had fun seeing her in a place where people fly over her, love her, and she feels like a queen, and it was lovely.
He wasn't jealous, didn't take into account, didn't get insecure and didn't try to regain his focus - he favored her and happily cleared this place for her.
From all the criticism I heard about Nir in the context of the fears she expresses, one main conclusion emerged, which most women agreed on - he is not really into her, even though he tells her over and over again that she is interested in him, that he is attracted to her, that she is amazing.
Why?
Because of the small moments in which he dares to doubt out loud - completely reasonable doubts in my opinion - is he built for it, does his routine match the life that Yuval wants - things that if she had doubts about which no one would have apologized here, but when it comes from a man, he is immediately suspicious Trampled, and it's an inequality that must change because it limits vision, and it's stupid.
Nir is afraid - just like Yuval and just like everyone else.
Is he not allowed?
Only women are allowed to fear and protect themselves at the beginning of a relationship?
I know that the fantasy is a man who immediately knows he wants, you are sure to be the one, and he also has no problem putting his ego aside and accommodating you until you calm down.
But sit back, close the Pocahontas, and land.
There is no such thing.
The advice that Daniel gave to Yuval was excellent.
She told her not to reject him just because she was afraid he would reject her, and Yuval listened.
She took a risk, and won twice - both the inner strength that comes from proving that she is capable of being in a place of uncertainty, and also Nir, who decided to stay, even though I think that until the last moment he actually planned to go and tell her let's meet outside and continue, because I can't be here More.
To teach you how much power there is in a real show of emotion - to hear that he is very welcome, and at the same time to know that his difficulty is understood and contained, open his heart and reassure him, because this is exactly what he needed - that Yuval will see his place and accept him.
On the other hand, I hope she has a lot of strength, because a person who every day takes two steps back and three forwards, and four to the side and then stands on his head to loosen the joints, will probably do it again.
It seems to me that his fears are rooted in the place of intimacy, including the physical - and the whole "she's amazing, but I don't want to hurt" is bullshit.
No one is afraid to hurt, everyone is so afraid of being hurt, that they have no free time for anything else.
Both are right and both are wrong.
Daniel and Sauli
It's the worst.
Daniel and Shawli (photo: screenshot, Network 13)
Wow, what a fall from Igra Rama.
One hundred and eighty degrees of change - from perfect chemistry to a total lack of communication, and all this just because we might be asked how he feels, and he answered honestly.
From that moment on, that's it.
As far as she was concerned, he was dead, and from that moment she only mourned him.
Danielle closed herself off and wasn't ready to hear anything, not have a conversation, not try to understand the other side.
and the women of the state with her.
How angry was he, and what did he say altogether?
Not difficult things at all, and mostly no one noticed the main thing - that his intentions were not to bump into each other - it's simply his way of being intimate, as you could learn from his previous conversations with her.
He is the type who likes to open things, big and small, because that's how he gets to know and get closer.
Did he have to do it exactly like this and precisely at this timing?
I don't think so - but why do you expect only him for awareness?
True, he was supposed to link the details he knew about her with the right way to deal with her.
Especially after the conversation about her father, he should have understood that with Daniel he must be extremely careful, because in front of him is someone who is not open to this type of conversation, not only after two days, but maybe even after two months.
Daniel is insanely sensitive, and you have to be a bit of a jerk not to pick it up.
The girl leads such a strict routine and is unable to stay away from the family, because she feels that at any moment she relented, the whole construction could fall apart.
For her part, she felt as if she had been thrown from the cloud she was sitting on, from a great height, onto the asphalt, and he didn't understand how much it hurt her and disappointed her.
But did he want to hurt her?
Absolutely not.
This is not about Dosh, but about someone who missed the moment of proportionality, and had a delusion that the degree of closeness between them was already great enough - perhaps precisely because he felt close to her.
So he said a few things.
who will listen
What is better?
A sealed man?
One who doesn't care about your personality as long as you're hot?
Don't you see who you are?
If Danielle was completely honest with herself, she would take the hand that Saul gave her when he entered the room to talk to her, and spend the last day with him, if only to know that she at least tried to bridge the conflict.
No wonder she lay on the sofa and cried after he left - she gave up on a man she was attracted to, who she had fun with, and who is also really interested in her because she was so scared that she was starting to feel something.
In this situation any fault would probably have brought her to this place, but the imbalance could not be more clearly shown.
Women are allowed to complain, ignore, whine and whine about everything, starting with a man's behavior when a coffee cup is broken, and continuing for how many minutes it takes him to ask if you need help with the mop - but when he does the same, he is immediately labeled as a douche.
I don't even take sides - both are right in what they say, but both are wrong in how they reacted.
His ego did not allow him at the moment of truth to release his not really important claims on the face, and she had to make an effort and get off the tree.
Maybe I shouldn't understand it perfectly in two days, without help.
That's what psychologists are for.
Oh, not really.
Two psychologists in a matchmaking program who are there for exactly that, somehow did not sit with this couple who until a second ago were flying at each other and now are experiencing a crisis and did not help them communicate.
This is one of the huge misses of the program, specifically in Daniel's case and maybe a gentle guiding hand could have given them another chance.
And also - what is the meaning of the three days of the format if you don't finish them?
Instead of catching her in her free fall and saving her from herself, the psychologists only criticize that maybe, for some reason, they expect him to be an enlightened Buddha, and she, on the other hand, is not expected to surpass herself.
After all, she was no less, and even more rigid than him.
And no, sitting down to talk to her after he left is really not wise.
The program missed an excellent moment, Daniel missed an equal man, and above all an opportunity to develop.
Sheee
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