The fetish is a person's need to observe or use a non-sexual object or body part to feel sexual arousal or depending on an action or series of actions to reach an outlet. We have already passed this stage in evolution where we call it perversion - on the contrary - anything done consensually between two adult people is welcome and can diversify sex life and make sex less routine.
You don't have to, right? It's possible without it, but if you don't try, you won't know - maybe there's something that will make orgasm more intense? Also, how do you know which fetish you're connecting to, if any? To find out what turns you on, you have no choice but to go on a journey of experimentation with your partner, which in itself can be magical, and increase your level of openness with each other. The most important thing is to get the word "weird" out of the bedroom, everything is legitimate, everything is allowed, and of course it is also allowed to say no.
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Filthy
talk, if you've had disappointing sex with your partner, during which the bed is barely messy for most women, it's just routine. There is one great way to spice up sex, and that is to talk dirty. First of all, because there is no reason to be quiet, and even if the children sleep in the next room, there are words that can be whispered and will sound like a shout. If you haven't tried it yet, maybe at first it's a little embarrassing, but this fetish speaks to a lot of people because its execution doesn't require equipment and accessories. There is nothing to do, sometimes "clean" sex is just boring. Rude talk in the bedroom can be very exciting, and if you're afraid, start by describing the situation or describing what you want him to do. That will suffice.
A costume
that some will think is very sexy when a woman wears a male oversize shirt and some will prefer it with a deep neckline and a short skirt. What underlies this assumption is that everyone likes something different and women, who are less likely to be exposed to, may not even know what they like.
Once I went out with someone who asked me what I wanted him to wear, and I, who is always used to dressing a certain way for sex, but you can't say that I'm closed to any option, and who has a drawer of toys and surprises - I didn't know what I wanted him to wear. I immediately imagined several outfits: a leopard thong, cowboy boots and tie, a rabbit costume or a giant teddy bear with a mask and a hole just for his air and mouth. But it doesn't really matter, the idea of dressing up is to be someone else for a while, and the thought of someone "dressing up" for you, can turn you on
Gourmet
food and sex go together, and both are addictive. When I got bored having sex with one of my partners, a friend suggested I put Krembo on his penis and eat until I finished, actually, that sounds pretty good, it's just a shame that I don't like Krembo.
But you understood the principle - everyone has their favorite foods, and there are of course foods that are considered more erotic and arousing lychee cravings, foods that are fun to lick like whipped cream, honey, or chocolate - no matter what dish you choose, it will be different from usual, and also tastier...
Pain
is a very familiar fetish, because of the popular book, 50 Shades of Grey. The origin of this fetish is primordial – many people associate pain with pleasure, or find in physical pain a release of mental pain. Because of the book, the Dungeon Club and the Rocky horror show, our association with painful sex is leather or latex wear, handcuffs, whips, corsets and more. But you don't have to. You can also agree on small flips, light hair pulling, or purchase nipple pincers. It is important to close in advance on a safe word and respect each other's boundaries very much. Painful consensual physical contact creates an intimate state of control games that many women enjoy
A man with a sex doll (Photo: ShutterStock)
Mess
If you're a person who likes order and cleanliness, you should give it a try. Because beyond the fact that it will feel like something forbidden to you, and therefore excite you, it will also be beneficial to be released for a limited time from the inner madness that requires you to be clean and tidy all the time. Make sex itself a mess that needs to be cleaned up, with the common goal of making as much dirt as possible. There are special kits designed for this specific game if you don't feel like turning the house upside down - slice a white cloth that will serve as an area on which to do it, apply acrylic paint (which falls in the water) and roll together until you create art on the canvas. And it's
also slippery and cozy
Balloons Remember the game we played as a child where you hold a balloon between you and someone else without blowing it up? So this hammer works on the same concept, and it's not clear what preceded what here - some people are provoked by sexual friction involving a balloon, inflating the balloon and detonating the balloon that if played correctly will come at the timing of orgasm.
Choking is another theology that belongs to this fetish. The idea is to add tension or fear to sex, the essence of choking is very similar to that of blowing up the balloon, to produce alertness that increases excitement, which increases the orgas
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