Going on dates, getting through it safely and getting to bed is complicated and requires coping skills. You can't know who you're falling for, what their habits are, and what they like or don't like, and on the other hand, you can take comfort in the fact that most of humanity, including the male sex, in 98 percent of cases won't be able to surprise you too much.
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Anything? The remaining two percent are also surprising, and "help" make up for everything else. I'm sure I'm not revealing anything new here, but there are things in sex that you can flow with someone you know and love, but with someone you met a week ago they're just a dealbreaker, to the extent that if they do them, you won't touch them later with a snooker stick.
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A bed is complicated and requires coping (Photo: Giphy)
Too much rock
yes, I know it's like it's supposed to be obvious. But the fact is that it is not clear. Millions of women have said this to millions of men, and there are still those who spit in your mouth out of proportion to the level of familiarity and depth of emotion, and they also have no idea what to do with their tongue, and they just push it into your mouth as if it were a return to what comes next. So first of all so that you know that there is no harder turn-off than a bad kiss - there is none, and secondly, no repetition will help here, because if you kiss like that, there will be no later - will only be here and now. Yes, all of a sudden we will become Buddhist. What you've heard.
anxiety
Oh, that's one of the worst. I know that the clitoris is a very strange part of a woman's body, and that it is very difficult to know the right intensity to touch it, and in which direction it is not entirely clear. But people - it's allowed to ask! It's also okay to make mistakes, it's all good, but no matter what, even if you don't like to find out, please don't be one of those extremes who give him little paws, turn him in all sorts of strange directions, and generally treat him like he's a raccoon coming into the house through the dog's door.
: Coffeecut:
Everyone watches. Or almost all of them. It's quite repulsive, but there's nothing you can do, after you've gotten used to watching real characters move, it's very hard to go back to masturbating to magazines. Not that that's a good enough excuse for stopping fantasizing with your eyes closed, but unimaginative and stupid I don't think I can fight. On the other hand, I want you to understand the following simple thing - if you belong to those men who bring most of their knowledge of bed technique and female anatomy from movies - stop. Better an insecure or shy man in bed than one with a mock experience drawn from XXX, and yes, it's pretty transparent when someone spits on your clitoris from half a meter away
Don't touch you with a snooker stick (Photo: Giphy)
There's nothing that's critical to sex, it's
a good touch. You need sensitivity to figure out how to touch every woman, because everyone loves something different, obviously, and only people who really care about how you feel at every moment really have a magical touch. But let's say you can't teach that, so let's give you some rules of thumb and start from there.
1. Unless she explicitly asks, don't be too aggressive. Don't go in her mom because you've seen 50 shades of Trellewell and some stupid friend of yours told you girls love pumps.
2. Do not be too hesitant and touch her weakly, half shaking, because it feels like a cockroach is walking on you. Or a snail. Common denominator: mucous and/or nasty reptiles. In summary: fluttering as a butterfly is good, but only if you also end up stinging like a bee.
Volume
problems There are those who talk in bed. Which is only nice if you have a common store of memories, if he knows what does it to you, and knows that it doesn't embarrass you madly. But this is someone new and he decided to try it because he heard somewhere that it turns women on, less. Now all the sex he tells you to call him Daddy and yourself a crazy, and narrates everything he does like it's a golf tournament. Who needs it, tell me? Plus, it's exactly the kind of thing we later choke on laughing about with friends. Which later? - The second you walk out the door, a group message is sent. But you also don't have to exaggerate to the other side. Too loud and compulsive - too much, complete silence without moaning and barely breathing - too little. Don't be one of those people who acts in sex like they're trying to pick up a book from someone's room without waking them up. Not sexy. Creepy.
Nicknames
I don't know how to say it clearly enough—after the age of seven, there's no justification for continuing to call your dick nicknames, knighthood it, or humanize it in any way. When someone says to you in bed, "Come, say hello to Jacob," it is really advisable that at that moment his friend, Jacob, enter the room and join in the sex. Yes, that much.
- Sheee
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