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We all know tarot cards in the context of divination and mysticism, but in the past the card reader was also the coach, psychologist and even doctor of the community – especially for a broken heart. The cards represent archetypes that are in our psyche and the story of the card provides advice that is relevant to us right now and now.
Relationships and relationships are the thing that fascinates us the most in the world. But beyond passion and drama, relationships present us with complex spiritual lessons as well as concrete challenges. So how do we get the best out of it and learn the love lesson that each card offers us? First we will understand its meaning, and then we will draw from it guidance in the various areas of love in our lives: relationships, family, singles and friends.
The Story and the Message - The Cure of Mythology
This is a telenovela-style story, about the god Cupid and the human being, Psyche. It has all the ingredients of a soap opera: an angry mother-in-law, love at first sight, a killing mission that turns into a romantic affair, and a hero who looks like a winged monster (well, maybe that's less common in the beautiful and the brave). Cupid fell in love with Psyche. At some point, Psyche discovered Cupid's hidden secret and disappointed him severely. Now she is trying to regain his heart and the faith of Aphrodite, his impossible mother. This card is called Psyche by the mother to perform a difficult task, descend into the underworld and bring an important item - powder, there is no doubt that makeup is very important, but is it worth risking the life of Psyche? After all, this is not the issue, but the test of her love and loyalty to Cupid. Psyche is forced to simply relinquish control and say, "Whatever's going to be will be."
Where does it meet us in life?
This is an example of many situations in our lives where we are not really in control of the situation. Something stronger than us is happening, so we need to let things happen, devote ourselves to the process even if it is painful or scary, and believe that everything will work out somehow in the end. We often place trust in the hands of others – doctors, surgeons, therapists, lawyers and even bus drivers. Yes, all of these sometimes dictate the way, even when we are ostensibly in full control of our lives. At some point we will have to say "Ok - you will lead" and in this case - this is the universe that takes the helm, and we mainly need to be passive and allow the right thing to happen.
The important message of eight trophies in relationships
Card of eight trophies (Photo: Walla! system, Walla)
We often invest our best in relationships – friends, family, dates or partners, but the card reminds us of the most important lesson of all – you can't love by force. What does this mean? It's the well-known saying, "It takes two tango." It is impossible for only one side to want, invest and have a cohesive vision of the relationship. It is impossible for only one side to feel that "this is it" or that everything can be solved. We strive for complete control over our lives, but the simple fact is that in relationships our control will always be limited. We do our best, but the fate of the relationship is equally in the hands of the other side and fate. Therefore, sometimes knowing how to let go and see where this relationship "takes" is the most important lesson of all. We can only choose how to observe the changes that the relationship absorbs. By the way, this does not mean that you should always "accept changes in love". If a breakup occurs, we are allowed to be angry, hurt and feel sorrow, but in the end it is the relationship with ourselves that will last forever.
A weekly message for dealing with friends and family
This week you should be in an enabling mood. Try to free from laws, from "who called whom last time", from calculations and calculations - and just go with the flow. Going out to meet? Beauty, not outgoing - good too. It is clear that on fundamental and important things there is no compromise, but it is worth checking where it is possible to compromise and not be too rigid. Liberation and space will give more space for loved ones in our lives to be themselves and communicate with us when they really feel like it. If someone presses us on a particularly painful point, we should first examine where it sits in our psyche, what it evokes and resonates with us from our personal history. Only afterwards is it worth discussing things with the immediate environment.
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A message for dates and singles
this week, as befits the subject, you should be liberated and attentive to reality. Don't force a date that doesn't happen, give up when a certain direction doesn't open naturally and at the same time – if something comes naturally to the path – allow it. Simply put, if there are suitors who don't flow with you and for some reason the dates are difficult, postponed, problematic in terms of distance or coordination of expectations - you should let things go, but if there are suitors who easily reach the path, and everything flows - come on - give it a chance and be open to what is happening.
Message for an existing
relationship Here there are two tips: First, like singles, try to flow with the events of the week, bring air and lightness into the system, be spontaneous and if a certain plan does not happen - it is time to practice letting go and adapting to the situation. That is, if you planned to go on the weekend to friends and it doesn't happen, don't get upset. Just go with the next thing. If a movie you planned to go to is suddenly replaced by an offer of a diner - OK cool. Just flow.
The second message is to pay attention this week to triggers, i.e. places where you are emotionally triggered by something your partner does or says. Perhaps these are opportunities to deepen your self-understanding, discover why the trigger triggers you so much, and make informed changes in your relationship habits.
Wishing you happy, strengthening and empowering couples counseling!
The writer is Mandelbaum Sagi. Director of the School of Personal Fulfillment, Tarot and Dreams Studies, author of the bestseller "The Guide to Reading Tarot Cards", deals with classical homeopathy, has 27 years of experience in teaching and teaching courses and workshops on personal development, tarot and dreams. Tarot cards and more - on Sagi's website.
"Sagi Mandelbaum | Personal empowerment, tarot and dreams" - Sagi's Instagram.
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