The week ended with a #בושה mark, with the broadcast of the embarrassing and unnecessary film about Moshe Katsav on Reshet 13, the exclusion of an IDF martyr from ultra-Orthodox media outlets, the painfully embarrassing match between Moshe and Noam in "My Wedding" and the 20th birthday of Ella Lee Lahav, a serial shamemaker we love her. News The women are badly joking.
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The film about Butcher Network 13 - what was it?!
"The shame and disgrace that will infect Network 13 for broadcasting this 'movie' will not pass anytime soon," wrote Ben Biron Braude this week here. He is not the only one to sharply criticize Network 13's decision to broadcast the hidden interview with Katzav, in what is perceived as a cynical gossip on the back of the success of Yes's series, which presents the story from the victim's point of view. Now, the network has decided to give a platform to the perpetrator and convicted rapist, a decision that would not necessarily be wrong if it were packaged well and sensitively, but that is not the case.
This despicable film – which, forgively, I couldn't watch in its entirety, has a limit to self-abuse – gives the right to speak to those who have never expressed remorse for or admitted to their actions, under the presumption of "now it's time to hear their side." The cold narration, which avoids a seeming position, does not clean the channel's hands, and creates an outrageous sense of symmetry between two colleagues of equal status and power as well as equal responsibility for the disaster. This bizarre presentation may be appropriate for a distant historical docu, not for the painful story and bleeding wound of rape victims who still carry the trauma in their hearts. And if you think he, too, is entitled to defend himself in public, try to imagine what you would think of an interview with a terrorist who murdered a Jewish family in order to present his "side of the story."
The film about Moshe Katzav. Reshet 13(Screenshot, Network 13)
Abortion at first sight
Much has been said about the semi-stroke Moshe received from his "wedding" when he heard the age of his daughter-in-law, Noam, 36, who is only four years his senior. Putting aside theories that he is simply not attracted to her (as Karin, the mistress of the section) and throwing the lack of attraction at age, there is a real and deep fear of thirty-plus year old women. Really, they are about as afraid of us as we are afraid to walk in the dark alone on a construction site. The female biological clock brings with it burning questions that terrify them, and I can understand this a little, because if you want children - to take care of it as soon as possible, and if you don't want to (but in Israel usually do) - you should also be honest about it, so as not to waste the other side's time.
And alongside the understandable concerns and annoyances, it must also be said that nothing good comes out of dealing with the freshness of eggs on a first date, a subject that ensures that from here no one will go home. There's nothing you can do, once you've pulled out a fertility test, you've killed sex appeal and rometics. I urge you, men and women alike, to remove the discussion about children from the dating table. It's obstructive, it's depressing, and it's mostly unnecessary, because you have no way of knowing if you want children from a man you just knew. The answer is more complex than "yes" or "no," really too complex for a first date. Or two. Or tenth. In short, make sure it comes after you've experimented with Strapon. When you're motivated by the fear of losing time, you're wasting your time the most, because instead of dating, you go on sperm bank recruitment interviews. The pressure for children not only shrinks pins but prevents the possibility of real acquaintance.
The solution to this may come from the normalization of non-normative families, apropos of Pride Month. As we normalize as a society the option to freeze eggs, conceive from sperm donation, adopt and separate the romantic and parental fields, the birth pressure has also dropped significantly from the dating world. If your partner doesn't have to be the father of your children, if you don't come to the perception that every 30-year-old woman wants to take sperm from you - everything can become much more fun.
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IDF martyr Lia Ben Nun (Photo: screenshot, Facebook)
Excluded in their lives and deaths
The exclusion of women in the ultra-Orthodox media goes to a new level with the concealment of the image of the late soldier Lia Ben Nun, the most killed of the three killed in the murderous terrorist attack on the Egyptian border. It is impossible to imagine the level of emotional obtuseness of excluding a woman in her death, out of a delusional and apparently unfounded fear that readers of her death will be turned on by the news and see her as a sexual object. It's amazing how many crazy fetishes are exposed in an attempt to impose extreme conservatism.
Among the sites that saw fit to degrade the honor of the deceased soldier was the website "Behederei Haredim" and "JDN". It is important to note that they are not negligible sites or those that represent only some rogue extremist. The extremists "really," it is commonly said, are not on the net at all. So here they are, accepted with a committee, giving an IDF fallen the dubious honor of marking her image with a picture of a fence. Who knows why that particular fence was chosen to represent Ben-Nun z"l; Perhaps because behind her women are expected to stand and watch the men. In a word, shame.
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Ella Lee turns twenty!
We will break the disabled atmosphere of this column with jubilant greetings to Ella Li-Lahav, whose warm place is reserved for me in her heart, and we will take this opportunity to lift her up. I love those to me. Precisely because of all her mistakes and dramas, which spill out and from the sides. She's the only 20-year-old star around us who acts like a 20-year-old, and doesn't pretend to portray anything else. She experiments in front of everyone, falls in front of everyone, breaks down, screams, cries, tears up with laughter, clashes with exes and explores her sexuality - she's far from perfect and it's the most relatable in the world. Beyond that, there is a public service in her presence. Instead of selling us a perfect fantasy of the life of entertainment and glamour, she tells us inside how much this life has screwed her up. We wish her that from here everything will improve (and in the third decade everything will improve, be sure of that), that life will light up for her and that she will release new songs, because she has a great voice and is totally underrated. Ella Lee, a pen trifle, and the destroyer.
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