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Nelly Soderi, a 28-year-old matchmaker who lives in Beverly Hills, claims that the "expensive look" scares men.
Sudri often posts dating advice on her tiktok page @ask.nelly, where she has over 785,000 followers.
"Ladies, the more "expensive" you look and sound, whether it's because of your higher education, your lifestyle, the designer clothes you wear, or you have a really elegant look - the more luxurious and high-quality you look, the smaller your dating pool is." This is what she said in a video that was published last week and received about 3 million views.
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She said this happens because while many men may still Chasing after "expensive looking" women for their "ego and personal validation", they will eventually find it difficult to commit because "their presence makes them feel insecure".
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Sudri explained that men are "programmed to be doubters", and if they see someone who seems to already have everything, they feel redundant. "When a man wants to impress a woman, it will be easier for him to impress someone who has less. They will go for a girl who makes them feel more of the masculine energy theirs, and sometimes it has nothing to do with you - it's just their complex," she said, comparing high-quality women to a Bugatti - "There's a reason not many people enter this dealership," she explains, "because not many people can afford to own one like this ", she explained.
However, she does not suggest that women change anything from their habits and become a draft.
"Women like this shouldn't know they're not for everyone and not be surprised when a man chooses not to enter their metaphorical 'agency.' Their dating pool may be smaller. Several women commented below the video to agree and share this problem in their dating lives: "They say Me that I'm scary, but it's on them.
A strong man can handle it," said one, and another concluded: "That's very true, maybe it's really better not to let people who can't afford to enter the agency"
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