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Kendra Roxbury, 29, says she felt an incredible connection, maybe even electric, with Josh, her new match on Tinder.
They went on a successful date, but the fire was extinguished when the potential prince unexpectedly asked her for a loan of $400 - you won't believe what for.
It started like anything with potential starts.
They went out for a nice dinner.
She dug the place, but only because he asked.
After making sure with him that there were no budget constraints, she chose a relatively expensive seafood restaurant, assuming that the man who told her to choose whatever she wanted, really meant it.
"He was very handsome, smart, kind and he seemed very organized about his life. I had no reason to suspect that he was lying, and in addition we had a similar sense of humor and we got along great. The chemistry was there," she said.
A week later, however, she received a very strange question from him.
Is she willing to help him in the amount of 376 dollars - you won't believe for what.
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When she asked why he needed the money and what happened, he told her that he needed it to: "turn the lights back on in the house," he wrote, and reasoned "it seemed to me that this shouldn't be a problem after I paid for your seafood" and like a true and disrespectful zero Myself, he ended with "Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha".
Roxbury, who couldn't believe what she was reading, replied: "...really? I'm not sure it's going to work out between us. Good luck!"
And immediately blocked Josh on the phone.
Roxbury admitted that it saddened her, because she had high expectations, but even so she is grateful that "the trash took itself out."
Interesting phrase.
"I feel we were equal," she added, "I didn't use him for his money and I didn't expect him to always pay for everything. It was one date. I enjoyed his company and I would also pay for things in the future," she said, adding that she doesn't consider herself a "cold-hearted person "And she also has no problem with people asking her for help. "I wish he would have approached it in a different way instead of treating it as something he expects me to do in exchange for paying for the meal," she explained.
She shared screenshots of their conversation on Facebook in which commenters validated her frustration.
Roxbury admits that it is indeed strange, and concluded: "If he was ready to demand it from me so quickly, then who knows how toxic a long relationship with him could be."
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