Who and what monogamy/AP, Reuters, Getty Images, Shutterstock
Since this period is steeped in Alico and Liraz, now every couple of a gorgeous young woman with a 50-year-old man reminds me of them.
This title, for example, caught my attention from one of the sites abroad: "I was a lesbian before I fell in love with an older man - now his cousin thinks I'm hot for her." Of course, this is a stupid title, and the reader does not understand what the issue is here, is the age gap the issue, or The lesbians, or the paranoid cousin, but we'll ignore that.
Basically, this is a couple with an age gap between them - he's over 50, and she's at the age that men in their fifties like best - anyone under 30. His name is Shawn, and he's a photographer, and her name is Hani. Honey is a 28-year-old model, who previously only dated women, and this worries her mother who doesn't understand what the transformation means, but we'll ignore that too. The age difference between them is 23 years.
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21 years apart, but a similar level of solidity/screenshot, Instagram
The whole lesbian thing is not really interesting in my opinion - there are enough women who sleep with women as well as with men, and in general - I am really in favor of sexual ploidy and people who are attracted to personality and not just gender, because it seems to me to be the next step in evolution.
The first thing that came to my mind is of course Aliko and Liraz, between whom there is a slightly bigger gap, close to 30 years - but I don't see the reason why it upsets everyone so much.
The problem may be something else.
For the purpose of the discussion, there is also a big gap between Eyal Golan and Daniel Greenberg (two decades is a big gap) but for some reason people never had so many problems with them.
You'd think it was because there were less scandals with them, but that just wouldn't be true, and with all due respect to the high standard of humanity, I don't buy that we have an ethical problem with the story, or in general, with things.
Ladies and gentlemen, ladies and gentlemen, I would like to propose another idea for your consideration: the problem is not age gaps, but something else entirely.
It seems to me that age differences disturb us, not necessarily because of the moral context, but more due to asymmetry, or rather, the differences in the solidity levels of those involved in the aforementioned relationship.
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Sean and Honey: similar level of firmness/screenshot, Instagram
What to do that Eyal Golan cultivates himself and invests in his appearance, and what to do that the man, whether you love him or hate him - looks good?
The differences in the level of solidity in his case and Daniel Greenberg's are smaller than those between Alico and Liraz - and it just bothers us, like anything else that sits crooked.
It's just like the golden ratio (which says that symmetry in people's faces is pleasing to our eyes) - only between spouses.
In the case of Hani and Shawn, the gap is also 23 years, but a relationship between a 28-year-old woman and a 51-year-old man, a father, is also not something to talk about if the levels of solidity are similar.
Shawn is a sexy, well-maintained, tattooed man with the rugged look of a retired cop in the sequel to "Dead to Live", so the thought of a physical connection between them does not seem unnatural or perverse to us.
Think for a moment about other couples with age gaps of two decades or more and admit it - you should consider the option that this is less a matter of age gaps, and more of a matter of texture differences.
just saying.
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