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Oh well, it's been a long time since we've had any good sexual harassment, something nice where no one is really seriously hurt, and also from abroad, because we care less about sexual harassment in the Diaspora, and between us, it's a comical respite relative to what we're going through here - also because Everything is relative, and also because Rebel Wilson's claim that Sasha Baron Cohen sexually harassed her while filming a movie is a bit funny.
At first I heard it and immediately thought "Oh, really, what a surprise, this guy, who if he wasn't an artist would probably be hospitalized somewhere, harassed someone Sexually - a really big surprise." It turns out that during filming he suggested that she undress in a certain scene, because when she undresses "it's funny".
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from the beginning - in 2014 Rebel starred in Cohen's film called "The Brothers Grimsby". His undressing as an example of the nudity that was funny in the past. She refused, he brought a body double, but just before the shoot, just like that, he told Wilson "Well, okay, I'll strip, you'll stick a finger in my ass.
Well, it will be heartbreaking."
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Now, we can talk about whether it's okay or not okay to say something like that to a woman you don't have an intimate relationship with, and you're also working with her at the moment, but before we discuss, let's remember that this is a man who strips down in almost every one of his movies, and whose main hobby is trolling people, institutions, Governments, leaders, cats and dogs.
The troll man who made a career out of it.
In addition, Rebel Wilson and Sasha Baron Cohen do not work together in the Israel Land Administration - they are on the set of a film that is apparently all extreme scenes in the service of the trolling machine that is Sasha Baron Cohen, and another thing - Rebel Wilson, who is not the accountant of the production but an actress - she knows exactly where She arrived, who is the man, and what is the script, which she read before taking the job.
And one more thing - just as broad-spectrum antibiotics are less effective and weaker, so too sexual harassment cannot be a broad-spectrum umbrella word to describe all behaviors in the world in which a man says something stupid, tactless, or disgusting to a woman.
Maybe it's time we start getting into the thick of what sexual harassment is, break it down into its various elements, and stand up for their meaning.
There are probably things on this scale that are more serious than sexual harassment, and they have names - rape, indecent act, sodomy act.
According to the same logic, some of the behaviors are less serious, and they too need to be given names, their position defined on the scale of severity, and treated exactly as they deserve.
It could be, in fact it's even quite certain, that Sasha Baron Cohen is a bit of a repulsive person, and certainly after the publication, and with all the pressure of life, he has long been less funny and more douchey, and there is a reasonable chance to assume that, like a great many people who live with the feeling that they are better than others - he behaves Shocking to the people he works with.
Makes sense.
Indeed, asking someone to undress for laughs sounds very bad when it's taken out of context, but if the request is from a director to an actress, for a scene in a movie - that's already something that needs to be discussed.
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Is this the first time a director has asked actors to strip for a scene?
Definately not.
Almost every movie has some kind of nudity, for a variety of reasons - to excite, to get horny, to get a point across - I don't care why.
So why not for fun?
It could be that she was offended because she thinks her nudity shouldn't be funny, and if that's the case - I'm totally with her.
That is insulting.
On the other hand, if this is the case, it moves even further away from the world of sexual harassment, because when someone treats nudity as funny, it is actually asexual, which drops the ground under the claim of sexual harassment.
True, it's complex, and there are probably many things that can be said about the rich scale of harassment, but we have to agree at least on the basis, which is that sexual harassment must have a sexual intention behind it.
Sexual intent is the fuel that activates the harassment and determines its intensity.
If the sexual intent is present, both a look and innocent words like "hi" can be sexual harassment.
But if there is no sexual intent behind the words, it is not sexual harassment.
It's repulsive behavior, it's an annoying man who came to hit him on the head, it's disrespectful.
This is not sexual harassment.
It's just harassment.
Ordinary harassment, as we all experience every day without differences of religion, race, sex and in a cross-gender manner.
Welcome to life, soul.
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