Fantasies, secrets, accessories and some specific techniques can help a couple improve the quality of their
sexual encounters
. In the format of challenges to be met between the two, the proposal promises to positively affect both eroticism and the bond itself.
Playing is not the exclusive heritage of childhood. In this case, adults must indulge in a series of initiatives that, in a playful way, aim at connection, communication and, of course, enjoyment.
Bárbara García
is a gynecologist, sexologist and content director of the WeSex app, a free platform with strategic information about sexuality. There, she mentioned the specialist to
Clarín
, "the star product is a program called 'challenges for couples', where - based on validated sexology tests - we design different paths to improve ties." The latter, however, is only available in the premium version, whose monthly price starts at $10 thousand.
There, he added, it is included in the approach to “
communication, affection, control and eroticism
.” What is it about? “According to the initial diagnostic score, we suggest games from different areas to the couples. We have one-hour challenges, 20-minute mini challenges and 10-minute pleasure pills,” said the sexologist.
Among the more than 40 challenges that can be accessed are those linked to tantra, praise of the day, sweet surprise, daily gratitude and a dose of nostalgia. García explained in detail how many others work.
1- Ping pong of sexual questions
The 25 sexual questions encourage communication. Photo illustration Shutterstock.
These are
25 sexual questions
whose main characteristic is that they are new to the sexual partner, something that has never been discussed. “This encourages communication and ranges from what toy they would choose - whether it is the first time they use one or if they bought a new one - to whether they self-stimulated or not,” explained the doctor.
2- Map of erogenous zones
A
GPS of eroticism
. The specialist mentioned that the areas that each person likes most on a sexual level should be marked with colors on the body map. Green, yellow or red (can also work with numbers) to communicate high, medium or low intensity and thus achieve appropriate stimuli.
3- Remember the first time together
This exercise, the doctor highlighted, promotes
erotic memory
. It helps both to remember why you chose each other a long time ago and to let the other know the reasons why you feel comfortable being together. Plus, Garcia said, “it's a lot of fun trying to recreate” that first time.
Appealing to erotic literature is a strategy that can elevate desire. Photo illustration Shutterstock.
4- Erotic reading
The brain is the largest sexual organ
, specialists in that field often repeat. In this context, appealing to
erotic literature
is a strategy that can elevate desire, since it stimulates the entire erotic world. From the app they offer their recommendations for texts of this type to read as a couple and then analyze them.
5- Edging
This sexual technique focuses on the moment when people are about to have an orgasm. Thus, what is sought is to go back just before reaching the climax to resume stimulation. In this framework, you have to continue stimulating other areas so that the excitement does not go down completely but rather subsides a little, and then manage to intensify the orgasm once it finally happens.
In edging you seek to retreat just before reaching orgasm. Photo illustration Shutterstock.
6- Good night ritual
The sexologist (on Instagram, @docbarbaragarcia) mentioned that it is called “good night” since that is the time when, in general, people who come to the app usually have sexual relations. These rituals, composed of "fun questions", are a kind of gateway to eroticism and one of their objectives is to
prolong orgasmic times
.