Is it true that usually men sit quietly in the corner when women complain about their sexual habits, as if they should do all the work and say thank you that someone is even willing to touch them? So that's it, no. Although they don't often complain or ask for corrections, it turns out that we are not the only ones who suffer from them, and there are some things that men would be dead to address already.
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We found the prototype of the Tel Aviv bachelor, with the classic commitment problems, some minor emotional problems and post-trauma from a previous relationship and asked him. Since he has already had children, is taller than eighty-five meters and normal (relatively), he actually functions as click bait for dating sites, and references flow to him without him having to make an effort, and these are the things he thinks women have not yet internalized regarding sex, and we put it in clear language:
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A ten minute kiss is sometimes too much for him. So less./Giphy
Kisses
If you thought that if he doesn't kiss you it means he doesn't have too much feelings for you, you're usually right. But even when he cares a lot and you are in a long intimate relationship, sometimes he doesn't always want to kiss for ten minutes straight. Unlike us, with a man the kiss is less critical in the stimulation process, they can do without, and certainly with less than us. And maybe this is a good time to explain to the men who are reading, that for women it is a significant part of the stimulation. So women, don't insist on kissing for an hour at a time, and men, don't suspect that she wants to because she's in love.
The first time
you kissed, you are already balanced on the couch, and the first touch is about to happen. Everyone knows your hand wants to reach his penis, and not just to check size. Don't fumble so much. You went up to his house, the intentions of both of you are clear, he knows you're not a virgin and where you're headed, and if there's one thing that annoys men, it's a six-hour journey to the cock. So there is not much point in looking for it near the knee or in the other room. It is between the legs, in the middle of the body. Get to the point a little faster.
Oral
There really isn't one rule that is true for everyone, except for "no teeth", of course, but there are subtle differences in the male definition of a quality blow job. Everyone still likes something different - delicacy, wildness, with a hand, without a hand, fast, slow, full transition, just a cap - you can try to understand by his reactions, but if you are in doubt, don't bother guessing - ask him, and he will be happy to say Go, if yes, or no, if stronger or less wet. Although "less wet" you probably won't hear much. Sort of like you won't meet many women who will ask for a "shorter" foreplay.
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Sexual diversity
I don't know if you've noticed (according to the cheating, say) but men like diversity. At the same time that the ultimate diversity is changing women, it certainly won't hurt, and maybe even be beneficial if you diversify in other areas. For example, in the way you look, in what you wear - even if you come one night with cuckoos and dance next to the bed, it will give something. Everything goes, as long as the element of surprise is maintained, and most importantly, according to the secret Maruyan - diversity in ejaculation
positions
is also needed , because compared to women who each have their favorite position for reaching orgasm, men actually prefer (after you are satisfied, of course) to be Diverse there too.
Positions
And after we closed the matter of diversity, men also like to diversify positions. Even if it means nothing to you, be forgiving. Let him turn you over a few times, and lift your leg behind your ear (this is considered a form of yoga). And by the way, the positions don't have to be acrobatic, and they have no objection in principle to the missionary, they simply have an objection to being stuck only in it. What is the number of classic poses you want to know? We asked - three.
Downs
Just like not all women really like to suck but do it anyway, there are also men who don't really like to go down. What to do. Of course, some of us also know those who are the first thing they want to do, but unfortunately they are the minority. When a man enjoys going down on you, you won't miss it, and if there's any doubt, there's no doubt - even when he's not really enjoying it, you'll feel it. Don't insist, because it's a shame. Bartolin is an acquired taste.
penetration? It probably won't flow. Even if it's a small small small dildo/Giphy
Anal
Many men have a complicated relationship with their butthole. While everyone has a prostate, and there's no arguing with the fact that it's an erogenous zone, some of them really don't like being treated in a special way. Most of them have progressed enough to allow themselves to enjoy half a finger (groomed and trimmed) from time to time, but on the other hand, the great majority of them will not flow with the fantasy of penetrating them with a (small) dildo, if only so that they will once understand what women feel as penetrated. No. They want you to be very gentle and implicit, not to touch there without permission, and preferably if you start with a few minutes of rimming, because psychologically, if your tongue is there, the moment when penetration occurs will seem less humiliating to them. Yes, well. He confirmed.
Testicles
are weird, they're hairy, you've heard a lot of rumors about their hypersensitivity, and you're right - an egg is a creepy organ. On the other hand, what do you think, that a close look at a vagina is not? So don't ignore them. Although you have no idea what to do with them, they are there, and they feel things. Caresses, kisses, caresses - everything that happens gently goes away, so treat yourself, because total neglect sucks.
After
all, women can ejaculate several times, and the first time in this case is usually just the opening - the next orgasms are easier to achieve, and the intervals between them only get shorter. It's not like that with men. Not at all. On the contrary. How did he explain to me? Let me quote: "It's like eating a big hamburger in a restaurant, with lots of onions, sauces, lots of chips on the side and a liter of Coke, being blown away, barely breathing, unbuttoning your pants, and then the waitress comes with another hamburger just like that. You can't. No more You don't feel like it, it even bothers you. Understand, it's not unwillingness, it's physical - it's satiety."
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