How to find a relationship with the help of 9 swords?/Youtube/Sagie Mendelboim
One of the simplest and most effective layouts we can do for ourselves when we're just starting out is message layout, also called the "fan layout". Inspired by it, you will immediately receive your weekly messages on love, career and personal development, but I remind you that anyone who has a pack of cards can make a fan layout for themselves: we can make a quiet space for ourselves to work, mix the cards and ask them for a message while doing so (the cards really like to talk to them - also in the heart). After that, we will spread a fan layout on the table or anywhere convenient and suitable and take out three message cards for the week, one for the relationship (existing or available vacancies), one for career and one for personal development. It is important to ask for direction or potential for realization - and not try to anticipate the future.
I made a collective layout last night for all the readers of Walla, but you can also make a layout for yourself today and start practicing a little and use the open interpretations on my website. The cards we got this week: Nine of Swords, Queen of Swords and Three of Swords.
A message to love: Do not insert a healthy head
9 of swords is a card consisting of the number 9 representing completion and completion as well as the element of swords representing cutting, intelligence and logic. 9 of swords is a difficult card, but let's not forget that it does not reflect the future! He reflects - advice. The advice is simply not to put a healthy head into a sick bed. This means that on dates we have to choose carefully who we deal with. If it is a charming person and we want to ignore that he has an addiction problem for example, we are going to ignore an important and problematic red flag just because of our dream of going on a date already. On the other hand, it is important not to sink, but to continue acting in a new and better direction.
In dating - it is important to pay attention to red flags, problems in creating intimacy. People who are not serious or who might be a "challenge" but not the healthy and progressive kind. Those around us influence us, and it is important that the influence be constructive and positive overall. Do not proceed if there are very serious red flags.
In an existing relationship: if we are in a bad relationship, it is important that we consult with friends and family this week and not be left alone with the difficulty. If everything is all right, maybe what we need is to get out of bed and the house more and be more on the move to restore flexibility to our relationship. If our personal emotional state is not good, this is the week to consider arranged treatment or at least a conversation about our situation with a person we trust.
Career message: Be on it
The Queen of Swords is one of the court cards and represents Aquarius. The queen is perfect for a career. She mainly specializes in technology and amazing ingenuity. We don't have to be geniuses like the Queen, but maybe borrow from her a glimmer of genius that is surely in us and focus this week on our careers from the vantage points of dedication and innovation. If we have interesting ideas, this is the week to express them. You should be dedicated, organized and emotionally invested in the matter. Find how to bring flow to work and really enjoy it.
There's always something new to learn and maybe it's a week to bring the work to social media. write posts, plan and test technological developments in the field. We got used to thinking that work is the complete opposite of meditation, but between us - work can also be meditative, relaxing and balancing. Maybe you can try to make work a more fascinating and entertaining place, and this is definitely the week to do so.
A message for personal development: to build a new path
The Three of Swords card consists of the number three which reflects an initial ending and reaching a conclusion as well as the logical and cool cutting swords element. This is a card that often reflects heartbreak or disappointment. So how will we benefit from this card for the rest of the week? Can such a card be useful to us? Certainly. The positive side is that the disappointment regarding the card is behind us. Now is the time to heal from the end, not go back and crack a new path. We must understand that even if we have understood what is not working, now we can clean up the area and move forward. Do a simple calculation, understand what works for us and what doesn't, and clean the area. These are great days for mental health, but more than that - for mental health. We may have ignored clear signs due to an emotional need for things to go our way, but even if it didn't happen, we have many resources to continue the journey, lessons learned and we can move on with a clean heart. These are good days for finding the joy in us, for understanding what our standards are for continuing and for inner cleansing.
The author is Sagi Mendelbaum, director of the School of Personal Fulfillment, Tarot and Dreams, author of the bestseller "The Guide to Reading the Tarot Cards", deals in classical homeopathy, has 28 years of experience in studying and teaching courses and workshops on personal development, tarot and dreams which he delivers on Zoom, in Tel Aviv, and in other cities throughout the country. Tarot cards and more - on Sagi's website.
"Sagi Mandelbaum | Personal empowerment, tarot and dreams" - Sagi's Instagram.