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The nerves finally jumped out: lucky that Shani gave way to her ego in front of Danny
Danny accused his partner of impulsivity and she, it must be said, answers him quite nicely.
Maybe even too pretty.
There is something so eloquent and orderly about her that sometimes her feelings do not go out, and a message that was interpreted over an entire monologue could have passed faster and sharper in words like: "Nibbled, flipped, brought me nerves."
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A wedding at first sight
Ofir Sagersky
Thursday, 09 September 2021, 07:59 Updated: 08:16
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The days are ten days of repentance, a good opportunity for the whole house of Israel to gather for soul-searching and for Danny and Yael to defend themselves against visitors. As expected, yesterday's episode does not contribute much to us other than the imaginary image of Danny the psychologist in shorts, so we too will do as the experts and dedicate this column to previous episodes.
The two motherfuckers start playing the game. After a difficult conversation with the psychologist Danny, she makes a 180-degree turn from Pocahontas' wooden grandmother to Coral, 22, "the man who will hurt me has not yet been born." All the extremists are gone. Its waters were murky, on which it fell, its land dry and other images of nature intended to be said in a low and airy voice. We, too, began to pluck hair at the sight of this bride, "to the point of self-cancellation," as Yael well put it.
Shani splits the rooms and leaves the house early the next morning, which strikes Danny in astonishment, for some reason, as if he has not taken advantage of every moment so far to roll his eyes, sighs of suffering and tease his partner.
It's not that she's so flying over Danny as she's willing to give the process a chance, and he, from the first moment - no.
just no.
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Tired of teasing.
Shani and Danny (Photo: screenshot, Keshet 12)
This is something you see in a lot of men in a "wedding" - they expect a very early spark. Yael also says this, in slightly different words, in an interview published here this week. We, the women, are more willing to give even a chance to what does not seem like a sure hit from the first moment. And maybe even another chance. Or thirty. Even if it comes down to every element in your character, say.
Danny accuses his partner of impulsivity and she, it must be said, answers him quite nicely. Maybe even too pretty. There is something so eloquent and orderly about her that sometimes her feelings do not go out, and a message that was interpreted over an entire monologue could have passed faster and sharper in words like: "Nibbled, flipped, brought me nerves." Let the coral in you go out, believe me. Just give it to her.
Shani begins to give way to her ego, and it's time, because there is no man in the world who can only rummage through streams.
At the moment, the protest is still coming out in a passive-aggressive way, which experts interpret as a rift between the need to treat and contain and the need to stand up for itself.
To me, the containing position is comfortable for her.
Precisely there she feels strong.
When she stands on her own, she is forced to admit that she has an ego at all, that she is flesh and blood and not a mystical being made of an oval fog.
Therefore she also denies being hurt, and really, not particularly tempting to be emotionally exposed in front of a person whose sarcastic and condescending laugh is his base expression.
Where's Coral?
Shani and Danny (Photo: screenshot, Keshet 12)
They try to "lighten up", acting that if necessary take a sign in his name that nothing will be cursed, and go out to meet Shani's friends, what she calls "date fun in Tel Aviv" and includes harsh truth slaps on Danny from all around. While a friend of Shani's goes on to read the classic encouragement, "Yallahaha the whole 42 days," Netzer, a mysterious messenger of God in the form of a friend of Shani, beats Danny a real Torah thing. Say, who is this king? Why is he not a groom in the show? What a guy, what a Spitch. He manages to encourage the broken Danny to open his heart to the other, and the two continue for another bottomless Persian evening.
It is claimed that the human body is made of 70% water, but Shani is made of 70% folklore.
Through it we discovered that there is nothing that does not have a Persian version, including ice cream.
This is the safe place to which she flees, as to the images of nature, not to mention herself personally.
If you are always part of a culture, part of a currency, part of the whole - you are free from independent existence.
How inaccessible, how convenient.
Below that, of course, emotions are bubbling up in her, but they should not be talked about.
It stresses Danny, stress understandable.
In the last two episodes I started to open up and see his side as well.
In his mind's eye, he sees dozens of pairs of red eyes surrounding him, ordering him to immediately fall in love with the other, a woman we do not understand.
She talks about double messages on his part, but from Danny's point of view, she sends ones herself.
On the one hand, she encourages him to open up to the possibility of a connection between them, and on the other hand - that he will not deceive her until he is "not there".
Confusing, Ahushluki is confusing.
Two types of touch.
Danny (Photo: Screenshot, Rainbow 12)
The psychologist Danny gives signs in two types of touch: "a language of tenderness, and a language of passion." This division is interesting, but in practice, it is difficult to draw a clear line between the two languages, and sometimes one leads to another. Sometimes a couple discovers the tenderness through passion, and sometimes the other way around, and sometimes they find that there is one missing the other.
Either way, until two strangers become "there" they go through some silly-looking stages during which they imitate a couple in order to become one; Holding hands, looking into eyes, going to a movie. "After the deeds the hearts are drawn," two men are quoted quite casually and without editorial intervention in this chapter. Danny wants to wake up his feelings. is very. In fact, he struggles to wake them up so strongly that he comes to an emotional halt.
The king friend tells him, love is not the goal.
No.
First of all get to know.
And that, in fact, is what Shani kept trying to tell him.
She no longer dreams of great love, but Danny will just manage to get out of himself a little to see her.
A lot can be said about her way, but the bottom line - it works for her.
Her coral cape wakes him up, and Danny realizes that his self-pity can't keep coming at her expense.
Project to give.
Karin and Itamar (Photo: screenshot, Keshet 12)
What has been going on is Karin's gift trip on the snow sled, or if you will, a "give" project to Itamar. This time she takes him to a basketball game, from where they continue to visit his family, and Karin takes the opportunity to give toddlers makeup palettes that will never be on my budget. We like to twist even about people expressing love in money, but to be honest, I never had enough money to experiment with it. Conceptually, I actually support. For additional donations to Itamar, click on BOBLA.
So when does the problem start? When gifts arrive instead of warmth and closeness as the exclusive way to show affection. Yael, who this time is bombarded with sharp insights, advises Karin to simply relax from the project. Don't need it all. Intimacy, she says, is in the small details, not in the grandiose gestures. What she does not say and can not, is that Itamar does not come to this whole festival at all, because he is a dosh. In retrospect, the knowledge that Yael sold him to Karin as "Prince of Legends" sounds even more fucked up.
Itamar ostensibly takes Karin's criticism to his attention.
He begins to pick her up in front of friends and family, directing the crushing instinct to other avenues.
After opening up to her in the car "in a good section" which is the stage in the relationship where he miraculously recovers, it does not suit him that Karin is interested.
"Do not delve into it, because I do not like it," he cuts.
Walla beauty.
Itamar's constant excuse for distance is that he went through a difficult parting, an event that seems to have earned him a spot in the "sorry about the question" spot.
Who are you, people who went through a difficult parting?
What, are you hanging out with us?
Wow, thanks for the honesty, amazing what you went through in life.
too much.
Shai and Hadas (Photo: screenshot, Keshet 12)
Santa Claus the daughter sees it all but love blinds her eyes - for her Itamar is the guy for whom she will travel to Midburn, extreme sacrifice if you ask me, and not just from someone who renews makeup twice a day. No adult should pay money for a vacation in the dust, certainly not hundreds of shekels. If you still travel, my sister, at least not with Itamar. Both because it's clear to you that he's going to turn you two into friends of guys you wouldn't want any interface with, and also because without the cameras, at this point he's not only a cutter but a ghosting.
And when it comes to social types, let's talk for a moment about the first million dollars before the age of 30, Shay. Positivity is a big positive trait, but we also learn from it that there can be too much. "Already in an initial conversation we realized that there is something to work on, a crazy level of openness," Shai smiles at Danny as Hadas digs a pit inspired by the fleeing terrorists. The two men continue to talk but she has not been there for a long time.
There are similarities between Hadas' behavior and that of Danny the groom, but unlike him, it empathizes with me. Maybe because I see the tremendous, supreme and failing effort to be nice to him, even though no nem in her body can bear his presence. And in an attempt to open a new page, she chooses a house where she will have enough spice and he will live in the Harry Potter basement.
The mournful minnows Maayan and Omri go on an ATV trip exactly parallel to Itamar, again, completely spontaneously. In the open air, Maayan presents Omri with a love letter that he reads like an instruction from IKEA and concludes: "Show bread." At this point I begin to wonder if they will be able to bridge the gaps between them, which are as mentioned the gaps between a woman and a robot. Maybe, despite the smiles and groans, Omri really does not feel there enough, or is not committed enough. Something, for his part, is not enough.
In these two I have hung the most hopes so far this season, but who knows, maybe salvation will come from the beautiful and the beast Nitzan and Mano, or from the pair of toddlers' possessions that entered my adult body - Einat and Liron.
Even if we are left with nothing, let us remember that not a happy relationship is the only form of success, but also the personal process and dealing with challenges or something like that psychologists tell you only after a scorching failure.
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