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If something good comes out of the horror match between Karin and Itamar, it's a huge warning sign for all of us.

It is clear that Karin already understands very well who she is dealing with, but is unable to bring herself to get up and leave.

Her heart is locked on Itamar.

The real pattern that Karin needs to break, in contrast to the script she drew for herself, is a return to Itamar's arms.

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Ofir Sagarsky

Sunday, 10 October 2021, 08:10 Updated: 08:29

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This week she promised us New Year's Eve weddings of upheavals. Whatever it is, the viewers asked - will Hadas attack Shai Ahuzat Tashua? Will Omri finally become a real child? Will Karin remove the makeup and find an acid face underneath? No and no: What happened, if anything happened at all in this episode, is that Omri and Maayan moved, from Florence to Jaffa. Laugh, laugh, for Tel Aviv it is considered "moving city", and for these two it is a groundbreaking event.

"Study room, balcony, completely renovated," Maayan states her demands from the new apartment. At the expense of who is this good, interesting to know. There seems to be a financial investment on the part of the couples in this matter, if not full, at least in part, because Maayan is willing to give up on a dishwasher. But alas, Omri has a dishwashing trauma. The trauma is this: he once washed dishes. At the beginning of the season I flattened a bold theory that nasal speech indicates laziness and indulgence. Let us not generalize, of course, there are some problems with the nasal septum - but Omri's case undoubtedly strengthens the claim.This is a call for research on the subject.

After a slight Freudian outburst that exposes Omri's wink to other women, the two choose a spectacular apartment in the Noga complex, a five-minute walk from where I used to be at the time the show was filmed, and it's a pity they didn't cross paths because then I could say to Maayan: Run away !!!

"I want to take the apartment Forever," Omri enthuses and drops Maayan from the equation.

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Run away!

Omri and Maayan (Photo: screenshot, Keshet 12)

This is the 23rd day, and Karin and Itamar are still alive. Itamar, "unfortunately," was staying with a relative who was infected in Corona and now has to be isolated in isolation from Karin. I mean, he could do it with Karin, but he did not want to. "Chick?", He turns to her, but the experimental affectionate nickname fails to soften her reaction to the news. In order to prove his credibility, he recruits a doctor-doctor to the alias, who confirms in the headset that indeed, Itamar must be in solitary confinement. "Thank you very much," she says goodbye to Dr. Jekyll, her eyes blazing, "you will die."

Unfortunately for Itamar, Karin quickly surpasses the logical failure: Itamar is the only one who is committed to isolation, but she is not committed to being separate from him. At this point, Itamar realizes that he has been trapped, and turns the blame on her, a deceptive and repetitive manipulation that entitles him to a biography by Galia Oz. Again she finds herself hurt and battered outside the apartment, deported, deported, deported. "The statement is that I am not interested enough in him," she explains well. Well, now pack that statement in a suitcase, without looking right or left, ignore the howling sirens' process ", and fly away.

She does, and descends the 18-story building only to be run over one last time. "I'm not having fun either, atonement," he confirms the killing, "and you'm making me a movie." And this is, friends, a perfect lesson in toxic dynamics. Before that, we will mention to the credit of the "wedding" participants, that reality editing is trending. Her goal is to draw us tight narratives, so she omits parts, emphasizes others, paints them with dramatic music and connects them as she sees fit. And after all that, editing is not an invention. Karin's accusation that she was "making movies", after Itamar provided her with a perfect reason to make movies, did happen. There's no Deep Pike here.

But our interest is not in Itamar himself, since he has probably learned his lesson and is certainly digging in the kinds of tubing vacations in the world, but in the character he represents for us.

Each of us, and perhaps each of us, had bitter experience in a relationship with such a person.

Aggressive, self-centered, who swallows all the energy of the room and accuses you of self-concentration as soon as you decide, even for a moment, to put your desires at the center.

He will only chase after you when you decide to go and may even show you a broken hearted show, but once you get back to him, he will throw you to the floor just like before.

If anything good can come out of this horror match, it's a phosphorescent warning sign for all of us.

Warning sign.

Itamar (Photo: Screenshot, Keshet 12)

At the other end of the self-concentration scale, Shai actually does everything to please Hadas, but in the most wrong ways. For example, a shirt is not included in them. After a number of enthusiastic fitness exercises, with shorts on his body only, Shai decides to attack Hadas with a hug in the back. "Ugh !!!", she is startled, and my heart is with her one hundred percent. First of all, people who sneak up on you from behind, as a rule, are sentenced to death. If you do it after a workout, on the contrary. If you're Shay and she's myrtle, then at all. At this point her reluctance leaves no room for images, and she physically demands that he clean it with a wipe, as if it were a vase in Sarah Netanyahu's house.

In a conversation with Danny, Hadas wonders what went wrong. After all, he's so cute, okay, "Good Guy," as the psychologist Danny says. And that's exactly the problem - Shay is such a good guy that he does not see her from a shower. His whole being "to do good," but only as he sees this good, and without regard to the desires of the other side. Hadas can no longer keep her stomach: when Shai touches her, her body contracts. Came to cry. In a conversation with both of them, Danny sets high standards, and offers to help them "be subsistence with this thing." You will only be able to exist in the same space, he says, and after those three weeks, that too is not self-evident.

Now something is happening that is no less than a trigger.

"I flow for you to feel good," Hadas admits with a downcast look, and Shai, to seemingly encourage her - puts a caressing hand on her knee.

Since we are trying today to draw a lesson for life from crises, we can learn from this case about the nature of gray and ongoing harassment, which is made possible under the auspices of a pressure cooker.

The pressure is first and foremost from damaging the gift, which displays impeccable niceness, but also from the production.

She's already signed "yes", so what, now say "no"?

How willing is she to come out so cold, frigid, bad?

Although Danny invites both of them to a week of complete abstinence, he adds that if you want a touch of myrtle - she is welcome to bring it in, a message that carries with it more of the same moderate social pressure.

Pressure is applied to it.

Hadas (Photo: Screenshot, Keshet 12)

One hundred and eighty degrees away, in a bouncy and happy packaging montage, Maayan and Omri leave the Lord's apartment. "Shall we leave fish here?", He asks very seriously. Maayan, I'm back, run away. She does flee but with him, towards the rising horizon. At least for now it seems good to her, and that's something too. In the well-equipped house they eat for the first time a cottage with a salad, which floods them with homely warmth, a top value in the program as is well known. The dogs and Omri join Maayan for bed, and the room is buzzing with love.

Itamar calls Karin from the isolation, a good opportunity for her to document the conversation with a look reserved only for those who have lost it once and for all. "I was thinking of going on a date," she jokes as she punches a small voodoo doll with a big neck. It is clear that Karin already understands very well who she is dealing with, but is unable to bring herself to get up and leave. Her heart is locked on him. To Yael, she calls it "not to fall into old patterns." In fact, she creates a narrative for herself that allows her to continue to cling to Itamar and ignore all the red lights. These bulbs, she tells herself, are just in her head. Oh, the trigger.

Yael encourages Karin to reveal her feelings to Itamar, perhaps so that he can squeeze them with pleasure and throw them in the trash. Itamar knows exactly how Karin feels about him even without her saying, and exploits her feelings against her. One thing I agree with the expert: if Itamar does not see Karin, he should go to Kibinimt. He does not see her, and was supposed to go already at least a week ago, but better now never.

On the less self-conscious side of the planet, Mr. Hat and Myrtle head out onto the porch to the spectacular view from their window.

If Hadas wants to understand why she is not attracted to him, one can start with this look, which would be legitimate perhaps for a person who disguises himself before the law authorities and his hand does not obtain but only items from Kfar Giladi.

"Monday for our touch diet and we end it with a big smile, and most importantly - lots and lots of hope for the future," Shai concludes, and that's exactly the problem.

Hope.

Touch diet.

Hadas and Shai (Photo: screenshot, Keshet 12)

New Year's Eve is upon us and all the wedding participants, without any production intervention at all, are celebrating New Year's Eve at their home. Suri Corona, photographed here. Mano and Nitzan giggle according to the procedure, some lesbian affair jokes, some object accidents; Einat and Liron continue to model romantic comedy; Maayan and Omri bloom in the light of the new walls; He even says goodbye to the loud curses in front of the football game, and gathers himself into a crazy number grease with his partner who will live. Shani was happy to kiss with more intention, higher expectation than the one who deposited his feelings in the kiss, but happy at least was here. Everyone danced, drank, laughed, and only Karin was left.

Itamar, as elegant as Karin's hints of disappointment, evades the wake-up call with a pink wig and glasses.

If only he had invested equally without scarring her.

"You can cut the tension here with a soul knife," he says.

Not just the tension, atonement, Karin thinks.

After a cold greeting on his part she returns with a dead face, "I hope 2021 will be amazing for you."

Yael would say it's time to share her feelings, but I say it's time to answer, "Amen fall into a bowl of spicy fish," shut down the computer and move on.

This, for example, could have been a real New Year's Eve revolution.

Because the real pattern that Karin needs to break, in contrast to the script she drew for herself, is a return to Itamar's arms.

Maybe if you share her feelings in front of him, as Yael suggested, she will get the slap she needs to get up and go.

When she decides to do it, I'm here for her, with shipping volts, jeans and heels.

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