There is one simple thing that can make Edith and Raphael attracted to each other

Danny the psychologist fuels hope in giving the disappointed;

Psychologist Yael manages to capture in six words exactly what we think of Katya and Lior's relationship;

And what is the chance of Idit and Rafael falling in love with each other?

Ophir Sagersky concludes another episode of 'Khatunami'

Ofir Sagarsky

21/06/2022

Tuesday, 21 June 2022, 09:19 Updated: 09:55

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Wedding wedding at first glance (Photo: Keshet 12)

Until the proper representation of the multitude of communities, a "wedding" will go a long way, but here we have the lesbian chapter in its history, with the musical presence of Sarit Hadad and the physical presence of Rafael's sister.

In the field of relationships we were a little less advanced, but as Guy says, as well as all the teachers who tried to teach me 3 IHL math: "Everyone and his pace".

Matan and Guy

21 days in captivity and the libido of Matan is still alive, which is hard to say about the guy next to him.

Something between them just does not work, but they have a hard time talking about things openly.

To that end, the gay man always stands by a straight friend with a failed love life, who functions to the Ray standard.

That is, a conduit for conveying difficult messages to the partner.

Through the straightforward test case Guy draws a mirror image to him and giving, in which there is one side that gives too much, and the other side more closed, that is pressed and runs away.

This refined analogy does its thing, and Matan turns the brakes he just got into his face.

"So what did he do here? That forced us to stay in this constellation?" He asks, and Guy nods in agreement.

A louder ouch has not been heard since Rinat and Daniel.

From here they continue to work on the intimacy between them in the canning department at the supermarket, where Matan plans to make chili con carne, a dish reserved for those who are not building on sex for the rest of the evening.

Guy's ceramic hamsa, which is found dead during kitchen preparations, confirms that there is not much to expect.

We will remember her and the pinecone of Rinat and Daniel.

The evening continues with a traditional kiddush, Guy's initiative, apparently, according to the strenuous performance that Matan invested in the word "goofen".

The existence of traditional or religious LGBT people always amazes me, and it always intrigues me to know how they bridge the gaps

between their identity and their struggles and the religion, which more or less denies their right to exist.

Socially this gap is undoubtedly present, and also in Guy's heart.

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Guy and Matan (Photo: screenshot, from "Wedding at First Sight")

In the meantime they move from one heartburn to another with a giant praline made for them by Guy, the most phallic experience you will have the opportunity to give soon.

The next morning Matan reports to the camera that something in this connection feels stuck to him, and not in his stomach.

He's tired of Guy's complexes, though that actually gets him in a wrap-around hug to the bed.

In my opinion, he is so skilled at lying to himself that he has begun to believe that a relationship is developing between them.

He's one of the guys who's going to say "I do" in the last episode, look deep in the eyes and escape the country with the cameras turned off without leaving a trace.

"What did you say about me?", Asks the big spoon, and Matan replies: "that I am confused."

Giving confused that even tonight there was no bedtime.

Precisely on the eve of heartburn I would not have taken care of it, but Matan's frustration has been stretched for three weeks, and given the grinder conventions, there is no way he has ever waited so long for sex.

Guy goes back to mumbling something about his pace, which is a different pace, but giving at this point no longer eats the look Guy pushes him like 90% sugar praline.

If we talk about "rhythm" - a sign that there is movement, a route, progress to somewhere, but between Matan and Guy - just walking in a circle.

If you are forcibly looking for clues to get closer, you can pull out the phrase "my beautiful," which Guy threw at him last night as a consolation prize.

There is a reason why Matan does not attach much importance to the statement, and it is not just his insecurity;

He perceives things, he feels that something is missing.

But Danny, like the consulting firm that has never been in a relationship, develops false hopes.

"He's both beautiful, and your beautiful," he inflates the moment.

Oh Danny, it's like you never dated men yourself.

They say a lot of things without meaning to, from "the most amazing thing I've ever met" to "let's live together", usually promises accompanied by an erection, but also just drunkenness or temporary insanity.

You should always listen to the subtext.

Guy and Matan (Photo: screenshot, from "Wedding at First Sight")

"I already want to get to the estate," Matan sighed.

"That's why you came here," Danny continues to fuel hope.

Of course, only the "groomsmen" come to find peace, rest, estate and all the names of studio girls flushed for life.

And while all of this is not the property of Guy and Matan, it hurts for a moment.

For example, in Sarit Hadad's song shared on the trip, the only LGBT in this car that is more repressed than Guy. Pain.

There is no man in love who would not be tempted to dream big in the face of this seemingly-perfect situation: your potential father-child embraces a girl in his arms, all warmth and affection, and in addition to all calling her "Lissol", as if destined to be a gay girl in advance.

"It's a little early to talk about it, but I can see him as a father figure," Matan fantasizes.

It's really too early to talk about it, and the right time is: never.

As a Dedi-Issues cliché myself I fully understand the hammer, but creating a new life for it is already a whole other stage in a relationship, a stage that is not seen on the horizon at the rhythmless pace of this relationship.

You can really see potential parenting in the valley in many ways, except desire.

“Do you think that if someone comes and flies at you every day it will make you happy?” Asks Guy, an expert in pushing expectations back to the source of their formation.

"Yes," Matan replies.

The episode he comes ready to fight the clichés, he no longer has the patience for the insights of empowerment in the shekel that Guy pumps him and he wants to understand once and for all if he is going to get out of this matchmaking surrogacy procedure.

But Guy is not here to give decisive answers, and he is only willing to embrace Matan as if he were his socially struggling son who has finally received a yellow belt in judo.

Moshe and Mai

In the previous chapter, to remind you, May and Moshe survived another upheaval.

She had already considered parting but then her parents offered her a couple gift, and now she is going to restore her relationship with Moshe and Dad's credit on the way to a hotel in Safed.

In my opinion, a little too far to run home in a panic without shoes in case of need.

But nothing bothers them at the moment as they travel into the unknown, a mottled handkerchief on her head to mark a wild mood.

Even Moshe's forceful mouth emissions fail to cloud the atmosphere, nor does the question, "How is it that my dear wife drank house wine without waiting for it to be made alive and I will drink too?", Which is addressed to the winery owners who happen to be on their way.

Like the taste of wine, the hearty winemaker explains to him, also a tasteful and complex relationship.

Maybe that's why so many glasses are dropped in this show.

When they arrive at the hotel they go out for a walk, not without additional micro-aggressions on both sides.

May in the water, Moshe out and they turn to the refuge of all the rotting couples - couple cards.

In the meantime it's all laughs and self-humor, even when Moshe pushes May as a fitness instructor to fumble, "Forward, energies, forward May May," or he declares, "Today I hugged my wife in frozen water, it's one of her strongest phobias - and it felt very happy to me."

May be pleased anyway: "Crazy achievements".

Moses is not easy to digest.

He sometimes seems to enjoy the cameras too much, he is enveloped in general creepiness and has a restrained rage that erupts in ugly demonstrations of power.

The last problem is the most serious of them, but I want to believe he is working on it throughout the relationship.

Otherwise, there is no situation that would have managed to accommodate May's musical choices for the trip, from "Give Respect to the IDF" to "Keren Peles," which Shai demonstrates proficiency in their words.

Crazy achievements.

May and Moshe (Photo: screenshot, from "Wedding at First Sight")

Katya and Lior

Not much happens with these two episodes or at all, but the episode turns out that Katya also learned about her joint move with Lior, and she does take part in it, consciously.

She offers to rent her previous apartment and they open the packages for the move, in the accelerated relationship that has been seen in "Khatunmi" ever.

"It's nice, but it does not make sense," says Yael.

"Even by 'wedding' standards it's an abnormal relationship."

It does not seem to me that Yael or Danny ever expected to see successful relationships in this show, and certainly did not expect a relationship that would succeed in overtaking the pace of "Wedding", a show where the groom's parents meet before being exposed to his offense history.

According to Katya, it feels so natural and real that there is nothing to be afraid of.

Yael gives her the look they give to a society that is starting to sound flat earth theories, considering how to pull it out of the cult without provoking opposition.

One can raise a lot of eyebrows at this connection, but as time goes on and these two fail to provide us with even one medical conflict, there seems to be no catch here.

Just good for them.

Accelerated relationship.

Lior (Photo: screenshot, from "Wedding at First Sight")

Edith and Raphael

Sometimes Idit feels like a fight, just to ignite a fire between them, if not a fire of passion then at least of nerves.

She is now retroactively offended by Raphael, who once said she looked "charming" in the canopy.

She says it's a compliment to a bank clerk, but I do not know, I have not heard anyone in a long time flatter his clerk whether platonic or not, and if you were called "lovely" as a bank clerk you probably did something really good.

But Idit, as mentioned, does not really bother with one compliment or another, that's not the point.

The thing is the lack of sex appeal in a relationship.

This issue will still float, but not at the moment - because before them is a family visit to Idit's iconic mother, who manages in one minute to ask more questions and answer more answers than Idit and Rafael have ever exchanged.

In the midst of this tornado she gives them a gift: a picture of their figures at sunset, or rather, "in silence," as the Freudian hands mistakenly wrote a moment ago.

"Certainly, a family atmosphere is something I crave," Raphael declares in the official announcement of the government.

In order to start a family, several elements are needed, for example, basic chemistry, but the common denominator between Rafael and Hagit is summed up in titles such as "Zionism" and "Love of the Land" that are meant to hang in the classroom in nylon clouds as part of Shelach. It does not sing the heroine of Nili and "imagination in values" is not the basis for a relationship.

She wanted to fight.

Edith (Photo: screenshot, from "Wedding at First Sight")

How can one even experience love, an emotion that expresses a unique connection between two human beings, when the values ​​that characterize them are so general?

In a conversation about his experiences, Yael marvels that even though his father abandoned him as a child, Rafael manages to be so "family and couple", even from the family of words that lost all meaning in "Khatunmi".

Actually, what about Raphael "family and couple"?

His desire for family and relationships?

If so, he shares these characteristics with the vast majority of the people of Israel.

Sometimes it seems that "couple" and "family" are the default descriptions of the participants' experts that there is nothing more to say about them.

A visit to his sister and partner presents the opposite and difficult view of Idit and Rafael's cold relationship.

No more calculated and planned connection, for the sake of increasing the Jewish demographics in the State of Israel - but simply falling in love.

It is impossible not to be jealous of this relationship.

"Love at first sight," Idit muses.

"It's not exactly like that, they started as friends," Rafael cautions, wanting to say, "we have a chance, too."

For Yael, Edith presents a more optimistic picture.

According to her, she is able to be attracted to Raphael (every man's dream), and feels that they both want to, just need to open some dam between them.

I agree with her, and this dam is a dive.

They need to learn from the other couples and start breaking down wine there.

From there, Idit returns to infuse Raphael with a sense of home with complaints about cookies he made in her honor before tasting them, and increases to add baking tips.

Very quickly they laugh at themselves and the situation, but Yael is not satisfied: there was finally potential for a decent fight here, and he too crumbled like a dry tahini cookie.

"I would not say that I am detached from emotion," Raphael refuted Yael's diagnosis, and she cut: "You do not say, I say."

Sometimes Yael's attitude is hard to watch, because apart from her stiffness, she exudes a slight ego stench.

I would not expect a therapist on a "wedding" mission to be pure motives, and even in relation to these standards, as Yael herself said in the chapter - it's a little too much.

There is no logical reason to force someone to get angry or hurt at greater intensities than he really is.

"You are not dramatic people, you do not make talking drama - but in the end also falling in love is to make people talk," Yael finds crooked ways to justify her attempts to stir things up.

"I kind of want you to take an interest in each other."

It is not clear how such a task is supposed to be fulfilled, but Idit is still trying to revive the affair in home documentation, with more jokes from the yeast world.

With that, hopefully, we ended the cookie scandal, which finally managed to survive three scenes without really interesting any of its partners.

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