Nelly Soderi, a 28-year-old matchmaker who lives in Beverly Hills, claims that the "expensive look" scares men. Sudri often posts dating advice on her tiktok page @ask.nelly, where she has over 785,000 followers.

She said this happens because while many men may still Chasing after "expensive looking" women for their "ego and personal validation", they will eventually find it difficult to commit because "their presence makes them feel insecure"