Errors and keys to effective couple communication: the problem is not arguing, but how it is done. There are people who prefer to remain silent to save themselves a bad time, but avoiding uncomfortable conversations aggravates problems and generates misunderstandings.

You have to speak and you have to know how to do it, for which experts recommend starting with yourself, managing your own emotions and thoughts. A couple who boasts of not arguing is suspicious because it raises doubts about whether they have really never had a (strange) conflict.