The mystery of being sexually attracted to someone you don't like. 31% of the 4,175 people surveyed said they had sexual fantasies about someone they disliked at least once.

Social psychologist Justin J. Lehmiller confirmed that this curious and paradoxical attraction is very common when launching a survey to write his book, Tell me what you want. Author of Arguing is healthy believes that although conflict is inherent to interpersonal relationships, since childhood we have been educated to avoid it. "Arguing is an act of self-love and affection for the other person," Juan Muñoz says.