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Class with zero effort - 5 proven methods to increase her desire

What to do that sometimes she has no desire?

Whether her head hurts, she's tired, or just feeling fat - here are some proven methods to get her into the right mood, and between the sheets

Karin Arad

31/03/2022

31/03/2022

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A common complaint of men is that they feel deprived in terms of the frequency of their sex with their partner.

And there's something about it, the gaps between female and male libido are quite large, especially after a few years and especially after a few children, and this situation is more severe in couples of medium to low socioeconomic status.

This gap becomes worse if the situation of lack of sex is allowed to last too long, because that is how it may be fixed.

But do not despair - there are some things you can do to not get there.

Here are some tips that really work:

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Do not make an effort (Photo: Giphy)

Do not sweat on her

metaphor.

Intention - Do not make an effort.

If there is one thing that lowers us it is someone who flatters, clings to us from behind and bothers us in general.

Especially if it's the man who lives with us.

These canine efforts with the tongue out and the tail between the legs do not do it for us, to say the least.

True, the advice always says - invest, bring gifts, come back.

Suri, but it does not always work.

If someone does not come, even if it is temporarily or because she is obese and does not want to undress and it is not related to you at all, courtship and a desperate atmosphere of pleas will make her nauseous.

Do the exact opposite.

Not to pressure her, to respect her spice, to talk to her, to laugh with her, to do binge series with her.

When you touch her, touch her hand.

Stroke her cheek.

Do not imply in any way that you are waiting for sex, and do not offer anything that looks like a cunning attempt to get to bed.

Such as a massage.

As if really.

Let the woman who ever managed to get a full massage from a man who is not an osteopath who paid him between NIS 200 and NIS 400 come.

Go for a run

Not a metaphor.

First of all it is clear that people who exercise look better, feel good about themselves and therefore also have self-confidence, which in itself is an attractive thing.

Plus, there's something very sexy about athletes, maybe because of the physicality involved, and maybe because of the skills, but not for nothing do we like sports dramas and dance movies - to see someone exercise their body and do it well, it's horny, period.

If you are at home with a woman who does not feel like it, one of the best things you can do is go for a run.

There is something primitive and masculine about running, and it's a very sexy show of strength.

In addition, in the mental state she is in she will surely be happy for some time alone (spice and lack of effort = aphrodisiac), and secondly, when you come back from running, in a good mood from the endorphins, sweating and with tense muscles, taking off a shirt and going to the shower, something will probably start to wake up.

It may not happen right now, but it will happen tonight, or real soon.

All hormones (Photo: Giphy)

Not porn - horror

Watching porn movies together may be effective in some cases, but not when someone is in a state of lack of desire.

After all, if she can not imagine herself having sex, why would she want to see other people having sex with Jenna Jameson?

On the other hand, emotion is chemistry.

Sexual desire, love, fear, hate - these are streams that all flow into the same place - chemistry in the brain that changes, and hormones that go into action.

A scary movie, preferably one of those for which women then need a shower escort because they are afraid to close the curtain or a ghost will appear in the mirror.

The fear will make her adrenaline go up, and it will make her want physical intimacy.

She's likely to get close to you already while watching, and if you do not get it and try on Mob while you're still watching the movie, it's highly likely she's going to stay close the rest of the night as well.

Bonus - she's the one who initiates the sex.

Go away

There is no powerful aphrodisiac like Frida, but the reference here is to something a little less terminal.

The urgency to physically unite, the one that exists at the beginning of a relationship, is the cornerstone of sexual desire.

When a couple is together for a long time and they already feel like one body, the desire to unite bodies decreases.

So disappearing for a few days works like magic.

Not really disappearing, in the segment of staging a kidnapping and leaving her a ransom note from newspaper clippings, but a vacation with friends, for example.

If there is no such option, even an evening or two where you go out, play poker, or go to a show will do the job.

No matter what - anything that will make her feel your lack.

The opposite is also good.

Arrange a two-day vacation for her, alone or with friends.

It is also a beautiful romantic gesture, also closes the interest in the gift for the birthday, and also gives her time alone which she really really needs, and if there are children it will be appreciated ten times.

Time alone always does good for sexuality.

Breaking the habit shakes the dust, and longing fuels the desire to unite.

This desire is contagious (Photo: Giphy)

Pick up.

To yourself

Her lack of desire for sex was not born out of a vacuum.

Life does tend to be disgusting, and chances are she is not alone in this feeling.

Her lack of desire is actually a reflection of a general lack of desire that pervades your relationship, and the solution here is not to focus on her lack of desire, but to address your lack of desire.

Take it easy, there is nothing less horny than a depressed and reckless person who demonstrates this at every opportunity - grumbles about work, hates making tools, has no strength to go out because he is tired, has no strength or time to train, all the movies bore him and he prefers to make faces to the release And get mad at Bennett.

It's very simple - people who have fun, fun around them too - are just more attractive, there's nothing to do.

The best way to get her desire back is to bring it back to yourself first, not necessarily sexual desire, but a general desire for life.

Because desire, more than anything, is contagious.

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