When lost, people will know how to cherish.
Today is Father's Day. A group held an event to celebrate the kindness of parents, inviting service recipients to share the relationship between father and son. A 21-year-old youth has been in touch with his divorced father. At the end of last year, he learned that the other party was suffering from terminal cancer. Taking on the important task of taking care of his sick father, he has grown from overwhelmed to mature, transformed into an adult, and his family has reached a settlement before his father's death. Father's Day has not been celebrated for many years. He promised his father's legacy, "You can rest assured in heaven, and I will take good care of the house and enterprise on your behalf." disadvantaged groups.
Father with sudden abdominal pain sent to hospital for diagnosis of terminal cancer has more than half a year left to live
The 21-year-old Song Zhenghao (Sugar) said that his parents often quarreled in the early years, and the relationship between the two sides was not harmonious. When he was in high school, his parents divorced, and his father moved out of the original home to live alone. During this period, he kept in touch with his father.
Until October last year, when my father was resting at home, he suddenly felt severe pain in his abdomen, and the pain was so painful that he could not get out of bed. He had to call an ambulance and be taken away on a stretcher bed. Referred to Princess Margaret Hospital for a detailed examination, it was later diagnosed that the cancer was at an advanced stage. The cancer cells had spread to the pancreas and large intestine and other organs. Surgical resection was impossible, and the growth of cancer cells could only be inhibited by chemotherapy.
Sugar described that his father, who is engaged in the construction site, is active on weekdays and loves to drive motorcycles during his holidays. He once took him out for fishing and sightseeing, but a sudden illness completely defeated him. In order to maintain family expenses, he had to give up and sell motorcycles. The scope has changed from playing around to only pushing a wheelchair in and out of the home near the garden.
Faced with the sudden change, Sugar felt overwhelmed at the moment, "I've heard about cancer many times, but I don't know if the person closest to me has cancer, and I don't know what to do. I don't know how." As his father's condition became more and more serious, he knew that he should cherish the time he spent with each other. From his father's illness to his death for more than half a year, whenever his father needed a follow-up consultation or hospitalization, he would personally take care and visit him, even if he was tired, He also insisted on fulfilling his son's responsibilities in delivering supplies. The father in his eyes would keep quiet when he was injured at work, and he didn't like to trouble others, but he saw with his own eyes that the other person's health had become weak and insane. This year. During his stay in the hospital in January, he even made a mistake in distinguishing the time and date. He called to celebrate Sugar's birthday a month earlier, worrying that he would never have the opportunity to accompany him to celebrate, making Sugar mature and transformed into an adult in an instant.
"She takes good care of the house enterprise, but the family has to return to my mother and sister. I want to be strong, cherish and protect the house enterprise people."
Parents make final goodbyes before dying
Until the day before his father's death, the mother and sister, who had been coldly dealing with the relationship between the two sides, knew that his father's time was running out, and finally reached a settlement to visit each other in the hospital. Under the epidemic, an exception was made to let the family stay in the ward for 2 hours and bid his father a final farewell. His father passed away in the early morning of the next day. At that time, he had secretly promised to fulfill his father's last wish: "He has to take care of us and fight against the disease. I hope he can relax and rest slowly in heaven. I will take care of the house and enterprise in his place." His father has passed away, but he is grateful that his father no longer suffers from the pain after going to heaven. He knows that people must look forward and cannot stay in the past forever.
In the past many years, the family did not have the habit of celebrating Father's Day, but this year they will gather to eat together, and put an extra pair of chopsticks and empty bowls on the stage to mourn the passing of his father.
Youtuber "Bobo Dad" Xiang Jiahao has a 7-year-old son with his wife. The wife is the housewife. However, during the outbreak of the epidemic last year, the wife's mainland family had an accident and had to leave Hong Kong for a long time to take care of the son. Falling on Xiang Jiahao's body, the father-son relationship has been tested.
Since Xiang mainly works at night, his son has to take online classes during the day. He not only has to take care of his son's daily life, but also has to correct his homework, which affects the rest time during the day.
Once, he was planning to speak silently with his son, but his son said, "Dad, you are not sleeping enough today, and you will make trouble with me when you are silent, and you will speak loudly. Why don't you go out and play with the silent reading today and listen to the sun?" Be silent again." The son's reminder turned into a slap in the face, which made him think deeply about his "mischief" and finally hugged his son and kissed lightly, "I'm sorry, Dad will change." After a period of time when his mother was not around, the relationship between father and son changed. more intimate.
Youtuber "Bobo Dad" Xiang Jiahao and his wife have a 7-year-old son. During the epidemic, the couple had separated China and Hong Kong, and Yuxiang took up the work of father and mother alone.
(Photo by Mo Jiawen)
Distributed 3,000 lucky bags to disadvantaged groups
This time, the Neighborhood Guidance Meeting for the launching ceremony of the "Song of Kindness 2022 - Planting Care" charity event was sponsored by technology companies to distribute 3,000 lucky bags and more than 1,000 caring potted plants to grass-roots families, the elderly and the disabled, hoping to help the disadvantaged groups. Come and be a little more angry and caring to tide over the difficulties together under the epidemic.
Wang Yingming, Vice Chairman of the Executive Committee of the Neighborhood Advice-Action Association and Chairman of the Fundraising Committee, pointed out that the epidemic has prevented many families from reuniting, and many parents have worked tirelessly to take care of their families during the epidemic and even during the quarantine period. He hopes that through this activity I would like to thank all the parents who have worked hard and made great achievements, and at the same time call on their children to take advantage of Father's Day to take care of their fathers through different channels, and to share their love with the disadvantaged in the society.
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