"Massage on a Date": First Citrus Exposure, Bride at "Wedding at First Sight"

Hadar Breyer, 33, a dancer and biologist, will be participating in the third season of "Wedding at First Sight" which comes up on Saturday at Request 12. Interview for Walla! Culture explains why she went to the program ("I needed a shake-up of the dates"), how Mom reacted ("tried to dissuade me") and how Shiri and Liran instilled hope in her

"Massage on a Date": First Citrus Exposure, Bride at "Wedding at First Sight"

After Citrus Briar's mother found out that she was going to get married in season three of the successful show "Wedding at First Sight" (Rainbow 12), she sat her down. "I was sure she would be very happy but she took it a little hard," recalls Breyer, 33, of the Walla interview! culture. "She told me she thought I deserved a lot more than that - and the best. She didn't think anyone should be sacked in this way. She told me she didn't think salvation would come from this program."

And what did you answer?

"It upset me because there was something to it. I debated whether to continue with the process, but I eventually told her to trust me because she knew me. I told her that I was following my heart and that I was going to keep myself. I told her that if the match succeeded - then I would. - Not so bad then. "

And did she come to the wedding or did she confiscate it?

"Sure she came. Even when she criticizes me and disapproves of every step, she is always behind my every decision and is there next to me."

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Ready for talkbackists. Brier (Photo: Gili Levinson)

Hadar Breyer, New Bride at First Sight (Photo: Gili Levinson, PR)

Hadar Brier, Tel Aviv and originally from Ashdod, dances ballet from the age of six. She has always had two dreams she wanted to fulfill: becoming a professional dancer and being a biologist. She fulfilled both of them. She grew up to be a professional dancer and by the age of 26 she was part of the Israeli ballet band, while working as a ballet teacher, she works as a biologist in a laboratory at the Ella Institute in Tel Hashomer - a laboratory that makes clinical products for cancer patients. "One for the mind and one for the spirit," she laughs. "I manage to combine both worlds and it's the most fun there is."

Breyer is expected to attend the third season of "First Look Wedding" on Saturday (21:15, Rainbow 12), after the second season has become even more talked about than the first and no one in the country knows the vicissitudes of Shiri and Liran, the coolness between his uncle and Tsukit and the love story Which ended between Bat-El and Yogev. "The story of Shiri and Liran has had a great impact on me and proved to me that the format is successful," she says. "Even if it's only one couple out of the six who survived and stay together, it's not obvious. People are disparaging, but in my opinion one in six is ​​quite a bit. They've been together for almost two years now, and if it wasn't for the format, they would rule each other out after a date or two, and it's not Would become a love story. "

So why did you actually decide to go to the show?

"Because I found myself in some loop of dating and dating apps. I met good people and had good dates, but even when a connection was made and we got to a relatively advanced stage, all of a sudden I or he for one reason or another decided to disqualify each other and finish it. I felt that there was no more hope in the dating world and I needed shaking. 'Wedding at first sight' is the shake for me. "

So you decided to go in the most extreme direction? Getting married on TV and being filmed at all hours of the day?

"I am a person of extreme deeds. Everything in me is all or nothing. But I have to admit that the wedding for me is a bit of a gimmick. It's not a wedding on paper. So I flowed with it. In the end, in the circle I'm in, I didn't find a mate. Or in relationships or in family life. From the dates, I began to despair, and then offered 'Wedding at First Sight.' I didn't immediately think to go, at first I laughed and refused, but then I said, 'Why not, what could it be?' ".

And the friends must have been amazed.

"Yes, they were very surprised. Some told me it was very appropriate for me and some told me it was most inappropriate for me to do it. But everyone was very upset and told me I had a lot of courage."

"A man of extreme deeds." Breyer (Photo: Courtesy of the photographer)

Hadar Breyer, new bride at first sight (Photo: Courtesy of the photographers)

Have you had a serious relationship?

"Yes, it was also one of the criteria by which the participants chose. Wanted to see our degree of seriousness. I was in a serious relationship three years ago, we were together for three and a half years. Why did we say goodbye? He will say it did not work, I will say it is too general an answer. We had communication problems and that was something that was fixed and over time it was difficult to change. It started to be problematic, gaps were created and there was no choice but to say goodbye. Then I went on dates, and even dated someone for a few months, but nothing worked. Something was not strong enough. You can rule out a hundred and one things, but if you like it - you will know how to round the corners and not disqualify them. The truth, which seems to me that we live in a time of fear of missing out. People go on a date or are in a relationship, but know there is a huge selection out there and fear they are missing out on something better. This is a loop we are all in. All because they know there can be something better. "

And at first sight do you come up with a different approach?

"Yes, I come much more open. I also have no choice. I'm going to spend 42 days with the person. I really wanted to do a process and I was happy to be given the option. I went through two months of sorting, talking to the psychologists, filling out full questionnaires, and so it is In my opinion, it's more focused. I'm also more focused on what I want and what I need to improve.

And what guy did you ask them to match?

"I wanted to have an ambitious man who also had a childhood side with him. A positive guy about life, who can be laughed at, be loyal as well as have good communication."

Also dancing. Brier (Photo: Gili Levinson)

Hadar Breyer, New Bride at First Sight (Photo: Gili Levinson, PR)

Along the way there is a great chance you will be famous. it interests you?

"Not for that I came to the program, but I slowly understand this. I know it can't be ignored. I think it's a price I'm willing to take to find a proper relationship."

And if you're not nice to your spouse, the talkbacks will slaughter you. You've probably seen how Shiri became the enemy of the people last season because of her cold attitude towards Liran.

"Yeah, yeah, I saw. I don't know yet, but I think I'll try to avoid reading talkbooks. I'll also pad the house for fragile things, and hope for the best (laughs). Listen, I'm mentally strong. I think I can handle it. "I know who I am. I not only inspire empathy. I have no doubt, but I will deal with the reactions."