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The art of having a good fight with the family during confinement


PSYCHOLOGY - Better often a frank battle than a hiding war.

To end the third setback of the day with his offspring, granny or the neighbor, there is no longer any question of going out for air without having his certificate in his pocket… and a good reason to go out! And this for the worst, but also the best. Because an open conflict is better than a latent conflict. From the cradle, we are taught that fighting is an obstacle to living together, that tolerance and negotiation are synonymous with social peace. "But rushing to prevent any aggressive manifestation reveals above all that the conflict is something that scares" , nuances the psychosociologist Dominique Picard, co-author of Relational conflicts (What do I know?).

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The scruple, with all the affects that flow from it (resentment, resentment, guilt, aggressiveness), turns out to be “as harmful as open conflict, and sometimes worse because even if it is in confrontation, the conflict nevertheless allows identify the problems and express them ” . Better a frank battle, where the abscess is punctured

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Source: lefigaro

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