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We could immediately identify everything that led to the separation of Manor and Ben.
But psychologists disclaim responsibility
Our hearts go out to both of them: with a manor who has experienced rejection with a committee, and with a son who has been betrothed to an opposite partner from whatever he wanted and imagined.
Finally, he dares to do what none of the "wedding" scars have done before, pointing the finger at the real culprits in the destructive matchmaking.
And also: the discarded card game, the gloomy morning and the Tinder puzzle
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Ofir Sagersky
Thursday, 12 August 2021, 08:15
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Two events this week turned "Khatunami" into a biblical code, and us, the thrash scouts, into sage commentators: the acquaintance of Nitzan and Emanuel's Tinder, and the mystery of the retiring couple.
The traditional interpretation tells of Nitzan and Emanuel because they only knew Tinder, but something is not right here.
Even if a bud is stressed in general, it is a bit excessive to panic like this from a match or even remember a match that did not materialize.
The girl is embarrassed as if at least she has discovered that they share a psychologist.
Oh, wait.
But seriously: Tinder is not supposed to embarrass anyone who goes to a wedding.
It's like the whole world will show you the ass but deal with the fact that you forgot to arrange eyebrows.
Even in budding terms, this does not seem reasonable to me.
Indeed, the critical commentary claims to have evolved between the two much more than that.
Apparently, even Nitzan's girlfriend remembered who it was, and come on, I can believe Nitzan, but no one, obsessive as she may be, is created in the diary the names of her friends' matches including their occupation.
According to our sages, the reason why everyone talked about "Match" only and did not elaborate beyond that, lies in the production's intervention to protect Nitzan's privacy.
In this interpretation, too, something goes wrong: after all, Nitzan was surprised to hear that he had immigrated to Israel from France, and he delayed identifying her.
This was not a show for the cameras.
Or is it?
I no longer trust anything and anyone.
The answer will probably remain besieged in the dungeon from which Ido Rosenblum speaks to us.
The riddle remained.
Mano (Photo: Keshet, screenshot)
Whatever the answer, Nitzan does not seem to be in the section. Maybe she's hurt by him because of past events, maybe he's just hurting her. What's for sure - she's trying to adopt him. Unfortunately, it is still impossible to slide reality to the left. Emanuel, as she well described in Tora Hadas Bashan, still remains a mystery. His motives remain vague and he exudes a fuzzy doshi scent in the eau de toilette. All we know is that it is important for him to calm Nitzan: so much "fun" came out of his mouth that it was possible to be confused for a moment between him and Luisana Loplito in her good old days, but only one of them received money for the humiliation. In fact, they may have been paid a silence fee anyway. Anyway, at the moment, the riddle remains. The episode also left us with no answer about it, because the new couple took the place of the duo who returned to us from the May of the Dead.
In a conversation with Danny, Omri goes on to claim that he opens up emotionally fast, in the tone of a tired fridge.
Despite the hesitations in the intimate realm, they come back pretty well.
Danny, in the manner of a reality psychologist, is surprised that no "intimacy" has been created between them, a name washed for sex, within a week.
Omri is also disturbed, and the pressure exerted on Maayan only pushes her further into herself.
Even the dogs Venus and Raspberry feel tense at home.
"Take as much time as you want," Omri reassures her.
"I locked the door, there's nowhere to run."
Some suspect that he is holding several bodies in the basement.
In my opinion it is actually cute but overall powered by artificial intelligence.
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Want a hug and do not know how to ask.
Maayan and Omri (Photo: Keshet, screenshot)
Maayan, inundated with the past week, refuses to sleep with Omri in the same bed, even though he says they have already passed this stage. "I thought it would be the inertia of continuity," M47 wondered, sending his programmer a troubleshooting document. After learning so much about Homo sapiens, Maayan's deviation from the standard disrupts his systems. His disappointment is understandable to me, and to her, and yet she remains attentive to herself. Wow, I respect her for that. That will take as long as it takes. The problem is that in the realm of discourse, both are lacking. So the morning continues in a gloomy atmosphere, which is silly, because at this point they both generally want a hug and do not know how to ask, who as an introvert and who as a robot. Unlike the other couples, it seems to me that precisely in their case it can work with the right couple therapy. And as we learned the episode from Manor and Ben, proper couple therapy is not here. But we'll get to that in a moment.
Meanwhile, Karin and Penn are going to meet Itamar's friends.
We left them just as he ran out of patience for her crazy grooming routine.
Even I'm tired, a woman who sometimes wears more make-up than body cells.
Because of the same rigorous grooming routine, to remind you, he was robbed of precious shower minutes as well as a "cool moment of home."
Is there anything that does not deserve the title of "cool" in Itamar?
Now, for example, is he afraid of some cool corona wave?
To Karin's credit, she understands that she exaggerated and released Itamar to the shower, instead I would just make sure that water comes out of there.
Sometimes she's so exhausting that I forget how annoying Itamar can be.
Luckily, they pretty much complement each other in their flaws.
Itamar and Karin (Photo: Keshet, screenshot)
"Maidla, soul, baby," he showers the perverts of the perverted uncle, and his friend compares, "Good woman." From there the evening only deteriorates with derogatory remarks from Itamar, who does not miss an opportunity to get down on Karin: on her general knowledge, on her addiction to cultivation and priest and priestess. It seems for a moment that Karin wants to cry, but then her face will move. Suddenly it's clear what annoyed her about his need to be the nail tonight, because there's something aggressive about him. He is not only sociable - but at her expense. Luckily they are quite complementary to each other in their flaws, and both know how to reach out for peace and take one when it is outstretched. This time, too, they cross the pit, and celebrate with a card game that Bear cleared from last season.
Here, an opportunity opens up for Karin to share her feelings, but even the game for retired lovers fails to break the makeup queen.
Enough, I have no strength for it anymore.
Decide: either Karin or Nitzan, it is impossible in that season for two who are embarrassed by their very existence.
Even when he takes her to the roof with wine and flowers, the same thick buffer with a matte finish remains between them.
And it's not just the make-up, after all.
For Itamar, a relationship is a home;
A space where you walk around relaxed, free, with exposed and breathing skin.
For Karin, breathing is zero.
No chemistry, no attraction, no emotions.
Manor and Ben (Photo: Keshet, screenshot)
But leave them now, here comes the moment we have been waiting for - the building accident known as "Manor and Son".
Manor ran away in the morning, and unlike her other behaviors, this actually does not seem excessive to me.
For a change, it responds with a clear reading of reality.
At this point, no matter what Manor does or does not do, she comes to a spoiled white.
In any crowded acquaintance with a person you did not intend to know so much, comes this humiliating moment, when every word he utters will sound to you like a nail on a board.
My heart goes out to both of them.
With Manor, who experienced rejection, he got on with a committee, and with a son, who was matched with an opposite partner from everything he wanted and imagined.
From the first moment we could recognize and recognize what he had just dared to say in front of the cameras: no chemistry, no attraction, no emotions.
Hard.
Hard.
Gazlite of the decade.
The psychologists of "Hatunami" (Photo: Keshet, screenshot)
With great courage, Ben develops his feelings in front of the psychological Yael, who knocks him out of the Gazlite of the Decade. After a week of accumulating, snatching, absorbing and deciding to go - at last - with the order of his heart, she accuses him of breaking tools and disclaims her responsibility in the destructive matchmaking. And if you listen well, children, you can still hear the expert spring shouting "I told you so" from the depths of her seat at the black guy to whom Yael sent her. Ben, who is a fucking king, dares to do what none of the "wedding" scars had dared before, and points the finger at the real culprits in the situation: the experts.
Yael, for her part, continues to make it difficult: "You did not let her know you, and you do not know her."
After five months, Ben answers her, she herself should have known him better.
God, what a catharsis.
For several seasons I waited for someone to dare to put the experts in their place, and Ben does it in full style.
Too bad on the way there two souls had to be run over.
If there is one thing we have learned from this depressing test case, it is that psychologists-who-are-also-matchmakers-in-camera-eyes simply cannot be ethical.
Their starting point, at its core, is heresy in the profession.
If so, two difficult chapters have passed over our forces, and I will summarize them as Ben summed up the week with Manor: Intensive.
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