We're not trying to patronize younger readers of Israel Hayom. We are only telling the well-known and logical truth: tribal elders are smarter than young people, even if the young are sure they have nothing to learn from the adults around them. They often do not have the strength to listen to adults' "speeches", because the generation of instant gratification suffers from severe attention deficit disorder, and also mistakenly assesses their limited knowledge and abilities as higher than they really are, and therefore suffers from a false sense of superiority. This bias can be costly later in life. Luckily for you, ChatGPT has a collection of useful life lessons. Here are some of the most illuminating ones:
1. People don't really care as much as you think
Most people are too busy with their own business to notice your peeled nails or a stain on your pants. You let it go when you realize that the world isn't scrutinizing your every move (unless you, say, Kate Middleton).
2. Don't be victimized by anyone
Your mental health comes first – no matter who, even family. Taking care of your mental health is never negotiable.
3. Have fun now, especially with children
Don't miss out on their childhood. Take a moment to enjoy your kids before they spread their wings. Work, stress, anger, chores, and relationship drama can wait. Cherish those moments.
4. Life is not as long as you think
You blinked, and now another decade has passed. Life is shorter than you think. Slow down, breathe deeply, and don't get too excited about things that don't matter 20 years later, not even 20 minutes later.
5. Money is important, but it's not everything. Take a break
Financial hassles are part of life. Save a little, obviously, but find the time to spend and have fun with friends and family - it rejuvenates the spirit and makes life much happier.
6. Life is not a competition
There is no need to compare. Your journey is yours, the success of others does not define you. Someone may seem very high above you, but everyone is fighting their battles.
7. Happiness is not a destination
Don't wait for the perfect job, relationship or body. Be happy now.
8. Toxic people are everywhere
If someone is toxic - stay away from them and take them out of your life. The problem is not with you. Your peace is more important.
9. Being nice is worthwhile and good for everyone
A smile, courtesy, sincere compliment and saying thank you will take you far, and create a good atmosphere.
10. Some people who are simply not good
people accepted it. Don't try to fix them all, and don't be afraid to turn your back.
11. Laugh at yourself
Life is more enjoyable when you are able to chuckle at your quirks or insecurities – especially since if you don't do it, others will, and in a more insulting way.
12. Trust your relationship instincts Red flags are real, and not just a downright funny topic on Matt Rife's stand-up comedy nights (see below).
If something feels wrong, it probably isn't.
13. Financial literacy is key
Plan realistic goals in advance, aim for them, and complete financial goals one by one. Be smart with your money all the time.
14. Stop for a moment before you respond
Silence equals gold. Let things sink in before you jump to conclusions.
15. Mistakes = Lessons
Take calculated risks. Mistakes teach you more than staying in your comfort zone all the time.
16. People can change
Give a second chance. We are all capable of changing and improving.
17. Stop for a moment before you click "Send"
This is true for both text messages and emails. Pause for a moment of reflection and avoid regrets and embarrassments.
18. Parents can make mistakes
Do not blame them. You didn't come up with a user manual. You too will make, or are already making, mistakes with children.
19. Relationships > to be right
Choose your wars. Is being right more important than your relationship?
20. It is okay to leave
a relationship is not a life sentence. Your happiness is more important than societal expectations.
21. Put yourself first
Selflessness has its limits. Your needs matter. Don't wait 45 years to figure it out.
22. Do not be afraid of failure
It is better to try and fail than to wonder what could have been.
23. Be kind to yourself
Treat yourself politely and courteously, as you would treat your best friend. It's a game changer.
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