[New Coronary Pneumonia] Girls with severe mental retardation return to school for no time

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Written by: Chen Shuxia

2020-03-18 07:00

Jia Hui lifted the mask behind her face with one hand, exposing half of her face with empty eyes. Living in the world of herself, she doesn't understand the tremendous changes outside, but the small movements and instinctual reactions hidden between her foreheads reveal the emotion of being trapped at home for more than a month.

The child with severe intellectual disability and hyperactivity is unwilling to be trapped and yells at home every day. Facing the end of the resumption of class, Tian Tai was in a conflicted mood. She was busy soothing her daughter's mood at home, taking care of her daily diet, and was tired of getting her daughter back to school. She was also worried about cross infection. Faced with the sudden pressure of all-day care, this depressed mother was bitter, but also gritted her teeth: "It's hard work, but I will continue to work hard."

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It's really hard work, and it's physical and mental.

Jia Hui is fifteen years old. She is a severely mentally handicapped person. She also has Attention Disorder and Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). Xiao Nizi is a "slinging horse", sometimes whispering, walking back and forth, sometimes holding a pencil and a book, lingering on her mother and sister to draw. Her pink down was covered with handwriting, and the wall at home was painted like a piebald cat. Tian Tai, a perfectionist in her own right, had no choice but to surrender.

The epidemic continued, with three mothers and daughters trapped at home. On normal days, Jiahui attended a severely mentally handicapped school, and she was studying group life at 7 noon. Classroom uses activity teaching, also teaches Chinese, English, Mathematics, and common sense, but it is a level of simplicity that ordinary people cannot imagine, learning concepts of big and small, not allowed to yell, etc. Each topic lasts for three months, one year only Take four lessons. Suspended for more than a month, everything was like a suspension. Tian Tai said frankly, "I can only do my best to discipline myself."

Tian Tai said that Jiahui was a child who needed two hundred times of hard work to care for, and she stayed with her from morning till night. Jia Hui likes to hold a pen and paper and writes with her mother. (Photo by Yu Junliang)

Suspended classes to take care of non-stop non-stop from day to night

At school, Jiahui is the only one in the class. Most of the classmates sat quietly during the class, but she did not sit regularly. She needed "special care" from the teacher assistant. "Take a drain to the bathroom and drink water."

Staying at home is even more unrestrained, "the channel stops every minute", and Tian Tai's tiredness begins with sleepiness in every direction. Jiahui doesn't love bed. She wakes up at 7 o'clock every time during the suspension period. The younger sister has a deep understanding. "My sister will hold the ipad and broadcast it aloud." Calmly, just smiled and said, "I want to be able to endure it."

After waking up, it is a non-stop war of attrition. Grooming and eating for her daughter are endless wrestling. Tian Tai said that Jiahui jumped for two hours after eating, "fall down only a bowl, and then pour back and forth." Tableware scattered all over the place. Three meals alone have taken up most of the day, and she has to take care of her infinite energy. "I will call you to write, draw dolls all the time, and bury Youtube together."

Although tired, Tian Tai asked herself more than she could handle, but her daughter's sudden emotional outburst or inexplicable behavior, she was not at a loss. "Sometimes I say the same thing a hundred times."

Jia Hui is fifteen years old. She is studying at a school for severely mentally handicapped students. Most of her classmates send accommodations. Jia Hui goes home every day. Tian Tai said, "Well, it's OK."

Emotional daughter stays away from home

You can still run around when you return to school. You can only be "siege" by the four walls of your home when you are suspended from school. The "discharge" time suddenly returns to zero. He ran to the window again and looked forward to it, even shouting, "There is no street yet."

On normal days, walking on the street, even if holding hands, Jiahui is always attracted by the Huahua world. From time to time, she approaches others, often fumbles, in exchange for disgusting eyes and poisonous tongues. Tian Tai and Yan Yuese apologized, and laughed again, "For many years, I have been used to La."

In the epidemic, Tianlunle, a rare day a week, is the time when Jiahui can achieve her wish. After being imprisoned for more than a month, she could finally go out while her father was on vacation, and she was as happy as a wild horse. However, Mrs. Tian said, she dared to go to the city centre of Tsuen Wan for an afternoon tea from Da Wo Hou, and then hurried home by taxi. Gall. "

The mask was Jia Hui's "hoop spell". On the day of the reporter's visit, Tian Tai did her best to make her daughter succeed. In just a few seconds, Jiahui had quickly dropped, her brows frowned, and she looked terribly uncomfortable. Tian was unhappy, and left a tired look. "Yun Ken was wearing a mask and was shocked to get infected, so it was really difficult to take it out."

Wearing a mask is a difficult task. Tian too soft and hard, and Jia Hui obeyed. After a while, Jia Hui immediately dropped. Tian Tai said frankly that children with severe mental retardation do not know how to fight the epidemic and cross-infection in school after class. (Photo by Yu Junliang)

Sleeping and taking care of masks Arata: "Only reuse and reuse"

This is accompanied by another problem: becoming a "hidden" family under the mask.

Jia Hui is very sticky, saying that she can't leave her without exaggerating. Mother and daughter sleep and eat together. Even if they go to the toilet, Jia Hui can't wait to go with her mother. All rotten. " In the past, the two daughters returned to school. Although housework was waiting in line, cooking, washing shirts, and mopping the floor, there was no end to it, but Tian Tai still could steal a bit of leisure. In the epidemic, the situation was even more severe and needed to be guarded at home all day. Life seems to revolve around home wisdom, "it's on duty every 24 hours."

Time is running short, she chooses to change the line and has no time to buy vegetables. Tian Tai only makes quick decisions while her husband is on vacation. Each time he goes out to buy a full week of stock "storage". You can stay as resistant as you can, "but masks can't be seduced. They can only sit in a sad city and" self-isolate "in disguise.

My dad is engaged in the hotel industry, and I have masks for work. The three mothers and daughters only share a box of "top gear". "They are all beautiful and I bought them just a few years ago." Fifty masks, which are consumed quickly, ca n’t be left alone to buy at home. Online registrations are often full, and Tian Tai can't hide her sadness when she talks about it, "only reuse and then reuse." The president of the Parents Association sent charcoal in the snow and brought 30 masks with her when she visited. She put down her heart for the time being, "but I didn't know to count after school."

The Hong Kong Government further announced that there would be no full-term resumption. Tian Tai admitted that her mood was contradictory. She said that children with severe intellectual disability did not know how to express themselves and rely on their parents to understand one-way. It was inevitable that they would be depressed. I really broke my throat, "but on the other side, it was another nightmare for my child to return to school." I would worry about how to protect myself and cross infection. "

Tian Tai laughed and said that she was the mother on duty at the age of four. She was even more exhausted in the epidemic. She said that she sometimes shed tears in her heart, but laughed with optimism. "There is no way but to keep working hard." (Photo by Yu Junliang)

During the visit, the adults were busy chatting, and there was a small commotion in the living room. Jiahui showed anxiety, ran over to interrupt the conversation, and shook her mother's sleeves, repeating words of unknown meaning. Tian Tai quickly soothed, and tried to think about it. She only understood the other 70% of herself, "how much patience and compassion." When there is always tired day and night, she occasionally withdraws from Jiao Jiaying, Mommy got Lala ", yawned and shivered again.

Taking care of stress and depression

Behind his hearty personality, he hides Tian Tai's little-known past. A few years ago, Tian Tai was a wicked mother who thundered, but Xi Ying Jiaying knew it best. "It used to be noisy and there was an echo." Tian Tai laughed loudly and said, "There is no family." She said that Jiahui was born When the head is deprived of oxygen, as a result, his intelligence is impaired, and he is overwhelmed, and he is overloaded with care pressure, and eventually suffers from depression. She shouted and sweared, her emotions collapsed, and she even said that she wanted to divorce me even if her husband was too divorced. In the past, it was impossible for her to hug her intimately.

My sister Jiaying (right) and Jiahui are four years apart. She is eager to learn about her loved ones. "I have a fine circle in my heart, and I hope I can enter this world." Occasionally a friend is unknown. Therefore, a malicious attack: "It's terrible to talk to your sister", and her escort is also considerate. "I haven't experienced it myself, I don't blame it." (Photo by Yu Junliang)

Depression has not ended, but her condition has stabilized. Tian Tai also learns to move forward in difficult times, exhausted thousands of sails, and even resists exposing his emotions. Xiao Ying Jiaying is also a hero. She is sensible and will help her share her worries, and she will do her best to take care of her sister: "I feel that accompanying my sister is a kind of play, and I have a fine circle in my heart. I hope I can enter this world. ".

During the very anti-epidemic period, Tian looked at the two daughters in front of her. "Tian was so tired, but it was a rare time for parent-child." But she did not deny that she was eager for temporary respite support. With a bitter smile, he said, "It's okay to shake for a chance."

Li Zhirong (right) pointed out that there are more than 370 members in the Parent Association, and at least 200 parents have asked for help, indicating that due to the care of their children, they have no time to go out and buy masks. Today, he made a special visit to give Tian Tai a mask donated by a kind person. (Photo by Yu Junliang)

Chairman of the Association of Parents of Severely Mentally Handicapped Li Zhirong pointed out that in the epidemic of new crown pneumonia, especially those with severe mental retardation who are overactive are the most difficult to adapt. He explained that they need space to express personal emotions, be trapped at home or have different behaviors and emotions. However, community services are affected by the epidemic, and parents are more isolated. He also mentioned that many parents of severely mentally handicapped people face the problem of inadequate masks. Since they are staying at home to take care of their children for a long time, it is difficult to throw on the masks. He hopes that the Hong Kong Government can provide more support.

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