Tom Khaimov posted a series of stories on his Instagram account on Saturday night in which he opened his heart and told his followers what happens in moments when even a guy like him, who is considered a desirable bachelor, does not always go smoothly when it comes to trying to start a conversation with women.
Tom Haimov, Photo: Kfir Ziv, Assistant Photographer: Chen Levy
"I feel like sharing something with you. I'm a very sociable person. If you come and talk to me, I'll always be nice. I will always come with a smile. And I guess I'm weird," he speculated. "I've noticed that when I approach women, they think I'm starting with them. I play on Shabbat, so I reach out to people on Instagram, tell people, 'Come.' It is an integral part of being a partner in such businesses, and reaching out to people if necessary.
"I invited her to come to my club. She wrote me 'not interested'. I replied, 'Great, I'm not interested in what?' She mentioned that I was starting with her, and she said she wasn't interested. But I didn't start with you, I just invited you to my place. And let's just say yes, yes I started. Why this disgusting attitude? Why answer in a disgusting way? Why be arrogant?" he found it hard to understand.
Tom Haimov, Photo: Or Geffen
In another story, he continued to tell of another case in which he received a rejection. "There was another event now, Sahar's from Survivor, he's with us at the agency. I've seen someone make such a dissatisfied face, so I'm goofy. Leave that the attitude was f**k out of here. I read lips, I worked at night for ten years. I don't hear what customers are saying, I read their lips.
"And suddenly I see her saying to her partner, apparently, 'Tom Khaimov started with me.' I'm a little offended by it, I have to say. I realize I'm a strange bird. I understand that we live in an age where we don't know how to be nice to people. We like to criticize because if we don't speak out against something, we have no right to exist."
Finally concluded with advice to surfers. "Bottom line – be nicer, and even if they start with you, with you, you can answer politely."
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