A difficult day is passing today (Monday) for Bar Cohen, who received the bitter news of her grandfather's death in recent hours. Precisely at these difficult moments, Cohen chose to shine a spotlight on a difficult talkback written for her by a surfer, in order to clarify the process of deep inner change she is undergoing following advice and guidance given to her by her partner Eliav Ta'ti, whom she met in the "Big Brother" house.
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"Z**h, soon Eliav will run away. I wish you to suffer all your life as you have until now because you don't deserve a place in this world. Eliav is only with you for sex because you are known to be a f**k," the user wrote to Cohen. "Thank you, my beautiful. I – the f**k," Cohen replied in the comment thread.
"I put hearts on her and filmed only some of it because it's terrible," Cohen wrote. "Even though she didn't hide herself, I hide because she's a makeup artist, and I want her to make a living. She's not bad, she's bad," she explained alongside a screenshot of the lashing out comment.
"I'm not a great religious, most not. And I don't keep Shabbat either, but in the past year I've been going through a real rapprochement of faith, even a little egotistical because it helps me believe that it will be good," Bar added at the bottom of her story. "A few months ago, Eliav told me, 'Bar, every time you read a talkback and you're offended, pray for something you want. To read words that hurt or humiliate you and to be silent or respond with love and not give back, that's greatness. At this time, the gates of heaven are open for you,'" she quoted Ta'ati as saying.
Bar and Aliyev. From "Big Brother", photo: Network 13
"My late grandfather passed away a few hours ago, so when I read the comment I was tagged in, my prayer was that my father, who also fell ill this year, would not walk as fast as my grandfather," Cohen said. "I thank her for those words – because she opened the gates of heaven for me and I prayed for Daddy, and I know it will come true."
Bar Cohen, Photo: Coco
Towards the end of her story, she appealed to her supporters. "There's no need to send me encouragement or return it with curses because I really get huge love everywhere, but there are moments like that. I used to be like that too. They would curse, I would return. They would hurt, I would scream. I learned to accept that too because we won't change the world, but we can change ourselves."
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