Whether you find yourself at a Hanukkah party, Hanukkah, a social event, or New Year's Eve events, the cycle of events of the season, and events in general, can require careful navigation between social norms. While everyone knows the main pitfalls to avoid, there are subtle nuances of holiday party etiquette that you must know and know how to deal with. In this column, with the help of ChatGPT, delve into the intricacies of holiday party etiquette and understand common mistakes.
1. A gift that requires work
Appreciation for your host is a great norm, but choosing a gift can heighten the festive spirit or add tension. Avoid gifts that create more work for the host, especially during the critical moments of welcoming guests. Also, avoid pressuring your host to open your gift immediately; Let them enjoy it at their convenience.
Is there a dress code? Don't ignore it. Synchronized guests in silver dresses, Photo: Holiak / FreePik
2. Ignoring the dress code
Remember the last holiday party you attended and how some people stood out because of unrelated clothing? Whether it's a formal event, an office party, or a theme meeting, adhering to the dress code is critical. It's better to be a little exaggerated than to be portrayed as flouting a pre-agreed code.
3. Ask your host to take care of your culinary preferences
While culinary restrictions are common, asking for special accommodations can be a complex area of holiday party etiquette. If you have specific culinary needs, it's up to you to ensure you have the right options. Do not ask the host for special treatment unless it is a life-threatening allergy, in which case it must be notified in advance. Eat what works for you, discreetly skip what doesn't, and avoid commenting on other people's food choices.
Mingling in front of a seductive buffet is sometimes unhygienic, Photo: Holiak / FreePik
4. Unhygienic preoccupation with food
Holiday parties often include a buffet that tempts guests to indulge while mingling. However, one should not forget the importance of maintaining hygiene in such situations. Dipping in all the sauces on offer, drinking from someone else's glass, using fingers and personal cutlery in shared dishes, can spread diseases, especially in the post-pandemic era. Use caution when engaging with shared items.
5. Taking and posting photos of others without their permission
Documentation at holiday parties is a well-known and favorite tradition, but not everyone likes to be photographed without their permission nor the sharing of their photos online, certainly not while eating or not being sharp because they are after a bottle of wine and a half. Respect the privacy of others, always ask permission before you take photos, and extra permission before posting anything on social media or anywhere else online.
6. Ignoring the party theme
Holiday parties are often themed parties. Whether it's a '90s party, a winter dream, yoga, etc., it's important to take the idea (which the hosts thought and worked on) seriously, even if the subject doesn't appeal to you. Sitting outside that you have not flowed can be considered rude and cause other guests discomfort.
7. Help a little too much
While offering help to a host is appreciated and welcome, there is a fine line between being helpful and taking over someone else's event, even if the intentions were good. Do not take ownership of the party. Ask permission before any help, especially before cleaning tasks. Offer help graciously, but respect the host's autonomy. If they reject your offer, enjoy without protests.
Happy holiday!
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