Yes, but not anymore

Sex matters are private if everything goes as it should.

What two adults do with their bodies is exclusively their business, as long as it is done voluntarily and with the express agreement of the other.

Reciprocal consent doesn't have to involve the same degree of enthusiasm on both sides, of course.

I know that I am not just talking about myself if I say that many women, if not all, have consented to, even encouraged and actively initiated, sexual relations of all kinds without desiring them at all.

To try, to please the other, to fix a disagreement, to have the party in peace, to avoid certain wars, out of boredom, out of fun, out of interest, because yes, why not?: our body is ours.

Then, once it starts, how the party continues is a mystery even to itself.

It may be that, along the way, the unmotivated person becomes motivated enough to end up more excited and satisfied than her partner.

Disconnect and activate the autopilot with the sole purpose of reaching the goal you pursue: here, let anyone who has not accepted, even sought, a quickie and fake volcanic orgasms come forward so that the other can finish as soon as possible and be able to sleep peacefully. .

But it may also be that, for whatever reason, one consents to the sexual act, whether willingly or not, stops consenting at any time and asks to stop it without this having to entail assuming the risk that the other will continue by force, citing the supposed debit that everything that is started, ends.

It is called sexual freedom and I am convinced that they think the same, because I refuse to think, like many men and quite a few women, that men are like those primates who think with their penis and are incapable of controlling their instincts when they are told. provokes.

When that happens, we are talking about sexual assault and, then yes, sex becomes a matter of enormous public interest.

Last year, one early morning, a girl voluntarily entered the bathroom of a nightclub with the soccer player Daniel Alves knowing what she was going for, according to her complaint, but then she regretted it and, when she wanted to stop the matter, he continued doing his thing.

He claims that he was all consented to, but that he went to extremes, just in case.

The case is being tried in Barcelona with 270 journalists from around the world as witnesses.

The occasion deserves it.

Whatever it is, the “yes, but no longer” sentence will be controversial, but this is how history is changed.

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