If you are not married but live in a partnership, you should arrange a few things financially - especially if children are involved.
Many couples these days make a conscious decision not to get married for a variety of reasons.
Be it because
numerous marriages end unhappily and are divorced
again, a
big wedding is too expensive
or the concept of tying the knot is simply outdated and no longer fits today.
Whatever the reason – if you live in a long-term partnership, and especially if you
have children
together, you should regulate your
finances
, for example with the help of a
partnership contract
.
Unmarried: no statutory asset equalization after a separation
While
the spouse is secured to some extent after a divorce
,
unmarried people
can face financial ruin after a separation, as a report by
Stiftung Warentest
shows.
It also states that when unmarried couples live together, there are
no mutual maintenance
claims and, in the event of a separation – in contrast to a divorce –
there is no statutory asset
equalization.
Financial security in a partnership is particularly important if you work part-time
Especially people who
work part-time
, for example to be able to
look after children together
, are financially worse off after the end of a relationship.
These are often
women
, which is why two out of three women want to invest more money in 2022.
The female gender is often financially disadvantaged
anyway due to the
gender pay gap .
That is why financial security is all the more important in a partnership without a marriage certificate.
Partnership contract for unmarried people: regulate your finances and secure your assets
In order not to face the financial end of a relationship and to minimize disputes, it is advisable for unmarried people to conclude a partnership agreement.
According to the report, such a partnership agreement contains provisions on the
ownership of assets,
the division of assets and
maintenance obligations
as well as
compensation claims
for gifts in the event of separation.
In addition, questions of inheritance
law
can be clarified in a partnership agreement and
powers of attorney can be
granted .
Decide who should get which
joint purchases
, such as expensive electronics or vehicles, if you split up.
Many are now also deciding to invest their money in tangible assets such as art in order to save it from inflation.
Write down how
jointly incurred debts
should be dealt with in the event of a separation.
Joint savings should also be regulated.
Here you can find out how much of your net income you should put aside each month.
Agree on
maintenance payments
if, for example, a partner is busy looking after the children and therefore does not work at all or only works part-time.
In general, it makes sense to get an overview of parental allowance
Individual agreements
: If necessary, regulate the
right
of access for joint children, who gets the beloved
pet
, what happens to the jointly acquired property, who can
stay in the
rented apartment and who has to move out?
According to the Stiftung Warentest report, it can also be specified in the partnership contract who has to bear
running costs, for example for insurance
.
Some settlements can set couples without a
notary
.
According to the report, a notary is only necessary if the partnership agreement is about a donation or contains the obligation to transfer a property or residential property.
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