“Leave him, go away, save yourself”.
When trying to break up with a narcissistic perverse partner, we often hear ourselves advising these short phrases, as if the solution lay in a simple action: leaving.
But if with each breakup comes its share of torments, when the perversion has settled in the marital bed, leaving the other is neither quick nor easy.
Quite simply because the person in front of you shows "a grandiose narcissism, Machiavellianism, sadism and acts impulsively", recalls psychotherapist Anne Clotilde Ziégler, author of books (1) on the subject.
The mechanism of the pervert is powerful.
“If we have to flee as quickly as possible, we do it especially when we can, insists the professional.
It doesn't always work the first time."
How to get rid of the grip and where to turn?
The therapist explains each step.
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