An apple and a tree: the problematic relationship of Shimi and Ben El Tabori

The last few weeks have not been particularly good for Ben El Tabori, but if you look at the paternal role model he had, the behavior seems much less surprising.

So what happened between them?

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26/08/2022

Friday, August 26, 2022, 4:00 p.m. Updated: 7:26 p.m.

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Ben El Tabori (Nir Pekin)

After

became a father for the first time, he said, "It hurts, I know my son will always watch my actions and imitate my behavior. One day, he might even follow in my footsteps."

Whether we want to admit it or not, we all resemble our parents in one way or another.

We can admire them or despise them, be their best friends or their bitterest enemies, but all this will not change the fact that there are patterns of behavior that are very difficult to break away from.

When you look at the last weeks of

, the picture is very bleak.

The recordings he sent to Ortel

's ex revealed a violent, powerful and toxic man, who uses his money as a weapon and does not hesitate to share very intimate family details with a committee.

Amar herself responded to the recordings, and according to her they are only the tip of the iceberg: "This is almost four years of emotional and financial abuse. My phone is full of violent voice messages and texts towards me, and towards a note that was abandoned time and time again by a father who made sure to make harsh statements of incitement and violence to him."

ended badly

Ortal Amr and Ben El Tabori (Photo: Nir Pekin)

It is easy to be shocked by Tabori's behavior towards Amr and the little Prince.

Mainly because this is not the first time, and from the moment the couple decided to separate, the main part of the war between them took place on social networks and not between four walls, as it should have been done.

But just before you go back to slandering Ben El, you can stop and try to understand where it comes from.

The problematic relationship with the ex, the inability, desire or desire to be a present father, the problematic statements - all of them are responsible.

His name is

.

As of this writing, there is a rift between father and son.

A year ago there was a high-profile apology, but since then a lot of filters have passed on Instagram, and there is no connection between the two.

And just like at the beginning, you can hate and despise the man who raised you, but oh how similar you are.

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Shimi Tabori and his first wife (photo: Walla! NEWS system, Yoel Ben Amo)

Tabori the father, who will celebrate 70 this winter, was married five times.

Ben El and his sister Bat El were born from Shimi's marriage to Aviva, who was only 17 at the time.

The two divorced after five years of marriage, and since then Tabori managed to marry three more times.

After Ben El became famous, Shimi met the one who would become his fifth wife and the focus of the quarrel -

.

Tabori Jr. was then at the height of his fame, and every headline from the problematic family was widely covered.

In 2016, the year Shimi and Yehudit got married, Ben El gave an interview to "Yediot Ahronoth" and said that his father asked him to leave the house about a month after he met Bauman.

He also said that he tried to talk to his father, but it was impossible because "Jew is always on the line, listening."

In another conversation that took place between the two, Ben El threw particularly harsh words at his father: "You made me an orphan," he told him, and said that he never stops crying before performances.

The main thing is that you are happy (Photo: Nir Pekin)

As mentioned, last summer there was a particularly moving forgiveness between the two.

Shimi arrived at Ben El's house and got to meet and play with his grandson, Tho Prince.

The three ate together, took pictures and raised a lot of hope that here, the happy ending they all deserve is just around the corner.

Unfortunately this is not the case, and the two are not in contact.

However, Tabori continues to support his son and after the announcement of Static and Ben El's breakup, Walla Celebs spoke with Shimi.

"The way you make the bed. That's how you sleep on it. Ben Al can make his own way and succeed like I did. He has a stunning voice. It was expected, two different worlds, I don't believe it's because of the personal problems of each of them, it's just the composition defamed himself.

It is very sad that his personal life, that of the ex and the child have come to such a state.

live or die by Your words.

Although she was forgiven, but since then we haven't been in touch, Ben El didn't involve me in anything, I didn't know about anything.

He blocked me on the phone so I can't even call and ask how he is.

It's a shame for me that it's like this, this is my son and no parent would wish their child harm.

I'm sure we will do him a great injustice."

It just kept getting worse (Photo: screenshot, Instagram)

After the announcement of the dissolution, it was reported that Tabori the son plans to leave the country and fly to the United States until his anger passes.

In the early 1980s it was his father who packed his bags and flew, but not out of a desire to get away but out of disgust.

"I reached a stage where I was tired of performing in the same places in Israel. I thought I could be successful in the United States as well. I wanted to take some of my songs from Israel and record them in English," said Shimi in an interview with "Maariv" last year.

"I got addicted to gambling. I burned the money in the casino. I would spend night after night in the casino, there is no casino in the world that I haven't been to - that's what interested me more than anything else. I even sold a house in Rishon Lezion because of the addiction. Success confused me."

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Tabori and his mother Aviva (Photo: Or Gefen)

The one who will be waiting for Ben Al in the United States is Dani Levy, his partner for the last few months.

Levy, who works as Kim Kardashian's stylist, has visited Israel several times, but is careful to stay away from the local media and has never commented on the personal life of her famous partner.

Will the circle close perfectly in a few years, when Ben Al becomes Shimi and enters Big Brother?

The head says no, but the heart says yes, and if possible bring a bucket of popcorn.

Walla!

Celebs wishes all parties peace, tranquility, an evil eye removal ceremony and weaning from friendship networks.

It worked wonders for her.

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